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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello :Dokay so I have been close friends with a guy for a few months now, at one point I liked him, I told him, he said he loved me, but only as a close friend. I then moved on with him, which I was really happy about. I moved onto other guys and he lent me advice and stuff, and was a really good friend. Now I have regained my feelings for him, but I like him a lot more this time. We flirt a lot and he always hugs me randomly, but I can't help but think he doesn't like me, but I end up hoping he does. I am quite naive, if that helps.The thing is, if we were in a relationship, it would be perfect! We are such close friends, and that is always a great starting point right? We tell each other everything, and we always open up to each other. He really cares about me, and I really care about him too. We make each other laugh a lot, and the other day when we were hanging out, he said I was amazing. I can't help but feel he keeps leading me on, after all, he has already done it once or twice before. He leads alot of girls on, and he also flirts with a lot of girls. But he says I'm different from other girls, and that I am unique. So why hasn't he developed feelings for me yet? I'm fairly sure he is slightly aware that I have feelings for him, but it's all just so confusing! Please help me, thankyou in advanced :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 September 2009):
He's a young man, and like all yong men his age, his feelings are all over the place and he really doenst' know what he wants. There are two wayc you can play this. Either you can accept that he is a friend and nothing more, or you can ask him how he really feels about you. But be careful, because if he is leading other girls on, he doesn't sound like he's ready for a relationship just yet.
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents  +, writes (29 September 2009):
 Boys your age can be a little behind girls when it comes to romance. Girls are sentimental, in a way that many guys aren't and they love the idea of being together forever with that one special person, even from an early age - your age. But some guys may not even start entertaining this romantic idea until much later in life. Give him a few years, and if you're still hanging out and you still have these feelings for him, you could end up being the last girl he dates and the one he marries. But for now, he is obviously not desiring to dedicate himself to you alone. And I think that while he is interacting with different girls, you should be interacting with different guys, even if he holds a special place in your heart. You could very easily end up meeting a guy that makes you stop thinking about this one.
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