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What are you meant to do if the guy you like finally notices you?

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Question - (29 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Omg. I really need someones help. What are you meant to do if the guy you like (whos drop dead gorgeous, 2 years above you.. in sixth form and perfect) actually finally notices you? He was flirting with me at my brothers 18th (not verbally, but still..) nd i was jst smiling at him all night. That was about a month ago. I dnt see him very often cos were in different years and parts of the school. But i tryedto get my bro to pass my number on to him, but that never happened. Anyway, on saturday night my bro saw him outside a pub nd said hiya, nd ben (this guy) said wheres your sister tonite.. u gna give me her number or what? But my bros a doosh nd got a new phonend not saved my number so he couldnt give it him. Anyway i told him to give it him next time he see's him. I dont know when that will be.. probably never knowin my luck. But i just can't get him out of my mind! Im goin insane. Hes like the fittest guy in the school nd actually noticed me! What am i gunna do! I need to get with him, im crazy about him. Sorry i probably sound really pathetic but omg.. i go so jelloid when i see him. If he ever spoke to me i would probly faint. Well i know id go bright red. Im so shy. Nd always look a mess at school for some reason. Idk, i always look fine when i leave the house. But anyway, im not even very popular nd this would just make me so happy. But im goin crazy,everytime i see him (rarely) i try walkin near him or smilin but he never sees me. What can i dooo. I just wanna be with him. X

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2009):

Just say hi! Talk to him!!! :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009):

Next time you see him walk like a duck and clap your hands.... Be careful you may turn into an obsessed stalker and scare him a way. Just talk to him already!! When you see him talk to him even say "HI" anything other then rely on your brother to pass on your number.

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A male reader, Candleman United States +, writes (30 September 2009):

Candleman agony aunt Since this guy was asking your phone number, look his number up and call him. Or, find his address and mail him a letter with your number.

Forget about the whole wait for the guy to make the move, someone else could come along tonight and you lose your chance.

In this day and age, a woman has a new place in society. Gone are the days a woman is expected to be timid. You can become Prime Minister for God's sake, so you can surely iniate contact first.

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