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writes:hi my name is piya(24)dating(28)for the past 1.5 years.we love each other a lot and he promised me to marry me.but for the past few months are relationship has turned completely sour.we love each other like mad and cant do without each other.hes got a very close friend whose a gurl and he says he talks more to here cause he feels wheneva we talk we land up fughting.hes goin through a lot of stress and i have become a punching bag.he everyday shouts n abuses me.dont know what to do.i cry everytime im alone.he tells me stop calling me or ill break of with ya and he always thretens to break my face n abuses a lot.what to do.im going mad Reply to this Question
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (30 September 2009):
 Domestic violence is a terrible way to live in a relationship. Threats of violence and the actual use of physical violence is not love.
The infliction of pain is not love.
We don't use love to hurt people, we use it to heal them.
Get a new boyfriend. Find a new mate. Get away from this person fast and cut all contact with him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 September 2009):
A good boyfriend who loves you will never threaten you, make you feel unsafe and hurt you in this way.
End this relationship and find youself a great guy who'll respect you and love you. This guy is going to hurt you, so leave him.
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reader, witch-fire +, writes (29 September 2009):
 I have one bit of advise. Run. He is not changing- don't make excuses for him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): It's obvious that he doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore. Abuse is not love and you need to get out before it gets worse.
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reader, MissMollie +, writes (29 September 2009):
Hi honey,
Take a stand, if he tells you he is going to leave you just leave him first. If you don't see it now that he is doing more harm to you than good you will soon because he is not worth it if he constantly beats and shouts at you.
Love is really tought and it's a huge thing, you can love anyone. The question to ask yourself is, are you going to be more upset if you stay with him and cry to yourself or if you leave him and loose a love. If you were to choose option two you are going to move on eventually and find someone who loves you more than he ever will.
It is your decision and a tought one but good luck and feel free to e-mail me back if you have any other questions.
Mollie.
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