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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): if this white guy you are on about is your ex then i agree with the others dont take him back he truly is a scumbag.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (30 September 2009):
 Why do you even think it is an issue?
And what is the issue? The age gap (30-40 is NOT the same as 20-30) means you are just starting at life while for him the body has started the long slide to death.
But hey, if you two love each other, then what does it matter what anyone else says? people will always talk.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 September 2009):
There's nothing wrong with dating anyone, no matter what race they are. But don't date this guy, please. He sounds like a nasty piece of work. Find a good guy instead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): I can't believe that you left out that vital information! And no you shouldn't take him back he sounds like a scumbag
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reader, ym_89  +, writes (30 September 2009):
ym_89 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok I need help ill admit it my ex boyfriend is in the marines so he cheated on me with sum grl he basically had sex with her he said he was drunk and didn't know wut he was doin. I found out all because he sent me a picture it was foward so it had 3 diffrent numbers on there so I decided to txt one I asked the chick if she knew him she said I'm his gf...I was like wtf ok cool then I droped it there I txt him and told him about it...blah blah he says he's sorry and wants a second chance...should I take him back?? Its hard to trust him how can he say he loves me and then goes and has sex with sum other grl...I'm confused. My friends say not to take him back I want to be with him but that trust is gone u know?? Part of me hates him and part of me loves him...he says he will give up drinking but I dnt believe him. I don't kno what to do...any advice??
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): no there is no problem whatsoever in dating someone white, even if you are from mexican heritage.
as honeygirl said before me, colour doesnt matter, its whats underneath what counts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): Im a white man and about 30 as well so ill tell you that I would love to date a 20yr old mexican girl ifs shes sweet and loving.
Interracial relationships will only be difficult if you get hungup on it. Just be together and have fun and it will be no big deal.
Dont assume that your perfect man is going to be mexican. Im a kiwi and have never dated a kiwi girl.
As for the age difference it might be a bit much but try it anyway and see if you like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): It doesn't make a difference if he is white, as long as you are comfortable with the age difference it's fine
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (30 September 2009):
 Sweetie, if you like this man and he likes you... well date him!!! It really has nothing to do with anyone else whether you are Mexican and he is white.
If they cannot see past the colour of one's skin to the person beneath, then they are really not worth knowing!!
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