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writes:heyever since my boyfriend had his crash on a motorbike head first into a wall.. ive been so paranoid and getting upset like loads when he tells me things like " i nearly died vik" i tell him i know because i was there in the hospital with him.. and it just makes me so upset.i was with him in hospital 9 till 11 at night and he just seems to through it back in my face and not care.i don't know whether the damage to his head is making him like this.i really don't know what to dohelp please :( Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 October 2009):
You have to be strong for him. He'll be feeling pretty vulnerable right now, so just be there for him and listen. It will take some time for him to get over it. This doesn't mean that you have to pander to his whims, mind you. Just spend time with him, talk to him, make sure he knows you care. Also, make sure you're having time to yourself and with yourn friends, just to make sure you don't get bogged down with all his problems. You need an outlet too.
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reader, Mina658 +, writes (1 October 2009):
Heyy, I had a friend who went through the same sort of thing. He couldn't cope with not being able to look after himself, felt like he had lost his indepence, giving him time alone really helped him get back on his feet. He does appreciate you being so concerned about him and he'll be alot less dismal when he comes out of hospital. You just need to be strong and make sure that you know he still loves you, don't let this break your relationship. Give him time and space to get over what happened and to recover
hope this helps xx
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