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*ikandme
writes:Ok im sure all the adults are going to say the same thing they say to every other kid that askes this question. but im different then other kids my age. i was raised only around men betwean the age of 30-60 so i have the mind of an older person. my question is this. was i/am i in love. I started dating a girl that i met at to be honest the first party i ever got to go to. and im not to far off 17. i asked her out like a week later after dancing with her at a rodeo dance. i fell hard like a rock. we dated for 3 months. we would still be but her perants dont want her dating. but we had a really really great relationship. when we would be watching a movie i would find myself stairing at her face for 10-15 mins strait while she was watching the movie. i then started falling even harder. (note. this was my 6th girlfriend the other just didnt make me happy)i told a girl i loved her befor, and for the reason that i think i did. and she dumped me shortly after sleeping with another guy. so im very cautious when saying that. i told this one that. she said it back. it got better from there. her perants made us break up. she goes to public school i homeschool. so there is only phone contact every few days. after we broke up. i fell into deep depression. i lost 5 pounds in 3 days. and i dont have weight to loose. i found myself not eating. and can not sleep. i dream of her everytime i sleep. and feel like i only have half energy. its lieraly dangerous for me to drive. because i almost feel drousy all the time. i go into deep mental pain at night. and have very bad thoughts. and i sometimes can not handle it and the only thing i can do is find a way to dim the mental pain. like drinking. and i smoke a cigar here and there it seems to help. foods...almost tastles. colors....dim. things that are normaly important, no longer are. and yes i do cry about every other night. i fell way to hard for this one. is this love? if so its both the worst work of the devil, and the best of angels. but only the second one when im with her. help me out here.....sorry for the long paragraph. if you want to ask other questions to help me, just send me a message....... thanks.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): I think that this may not be love but a factor of being homeschooled, as you are at home a lot, you don't socialise at school with other people. So when you meet someone you like you are bound to depend and feel more for them than they to you, as you need relationships that aren't with your home tutors, going to school would be good for expanding both your academic and social life.
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reader, Xtreme  +, writes (1 October 2009):
 Well...don't think i'm adult one i'm just 18.u tell me one thing did u have any sex with her while u were dating with her,if u had then its love but not true love but if u didn't then its really true luv.U talk to her every 3rd or 4th day means she too loves,then why u r doing all this,u tell me one thing will u be able to meet her by doing all this like not eating,smoking etc.Is it important to date her u could also call her in some public and talk to her ,now u tell her that you luve her truely and u will marry her whenever she is ready whether after 5 yrs or 6.Talk to her everyday on phone and say "I luv u".
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): only you can answer that one dear. but the way things seem then was it love? yes it was. and possibly still is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): You answered your own question. You say you love her. Then it is love. Only you know in your heart the truth about how you feel. You didn't tell us how old she is though? Even if her parents don't want you dating, howcome you can not still be the best of friends? No sex, but still hang out? No parent can tell a girls heart how to feel, so if she loves you and wants you in her life, they can't take that out of her heart. So don't give up.
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