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Archived questions from: 7 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Dating a high school girl, is it right or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - I can't stress the fact that I have not dated a High School girl since I finished High School 3 years ago, okay, not even one. I'm 20 now and dating a soon to be 18 year old girl in Grade 12, and I was iffy on it at fist too but I have several fri...

A bad kisser, do I see if he can improve or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - So i kissed this guy i like...and he wasnt very good. He thrusted his tongue in my mouth several times which i didnt like. overall i didnt like his kissing techniques. i wont want to kiss him again unless he doesnt kiss like that. should i not like ...

One man, 2 girl best friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - Right I have a girlfriend called Abbie but there's a big problem. Her best friend Sophie I think likes me because she is showing signs that she likes me. Also Sophie is the girlfriend of one of my best friends! I tried a classic trick the good ...

Please help me, my heart is broken in pieces.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - Hi guys, About 4-5 weeks ago me and my girlfriend of 2 years agreed to go on a 2 week break. At the time I was glad because I felt like I didn't want a girlfriend anymore. I didn't realize however that I had been goin through a stage of depre...

What would you consider "slutty"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend text me mid-afternoon and says 'Hey Babe I need you to give me a strip show this weekend. Can you find something slutty to wear for me?' I'm up for it... But what is considered slutty? And what else can I do..a lap dance,...

Should I break things off before he does go elsewhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - My boyfirend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. He has a really strong sex drive. And my body sometimes can't keep up with it. So when I deny him sex sometimes he'll make me feel guilty about it. Not in a really harsh way. But it still ...

Am I too quick? Am I too sexy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Am I too quick? Hi, I found a pattern in my love life. I am too quick. I fell in love with my best friend once and took me 13yrs to understand that it cant be it. and to accept that he is not in love with me and made for me and that I am no...

I don't know what to to do anymore. He keeps treating me badly.

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7 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend been living together for a while. But things jus seem to go different lately. He would leave me home and go out and see other woman and come home in the morning. We've been together for 2years plus. He was with ex for six years ...

I'm so addicted to him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid posters, I will break this down so it's not all long and drawn out. In the past all my ex's I have not cared for as much as my new boy friend. I could go a few days without seeing them and hardly even talking to them. But my new boyfriend ...

Could hefall for me in time or is there just no hope?

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7 May 2009 (F) - hi all! im 35 years old and my boyfriend is 43 hes been single for a few years now and was just enjoying dating women. i have children from a previous partner he hasnt got any. we've only been together nine months and in this time it took months for ...

I can't have sex with her without security - how do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - I am at university, and am currently dating a wonderful woman. However, I don't want to have sex with her just yet (I am a virgin) and be heart-broken if she leaves me due to problems further down the line. It is so easy to end relationships (and ...

How can I stop picking the wrong guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I always end up fancying guys who aren't interested me... or guys who have a girlfriend or possible girlfriend, or guys who don't see like, or liking a guy who is out my league etc. How do I find a guy who is in my league, a guy who isn't full o...

Always picking the wrong guy and end up alone

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Everyone assumes I'm experienced just because I'm bi. I can't open up to people.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I used to have a girlfriend (I'm also female)and I get on well with lads and identify as being bisexual. Because of this, everyone I know assumes that I'm sexually experienced. In reality I've slept with my ex- girl but never got beyond kissing a ...

No Make-Up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I've been dating this man for about 2 months now. He saw me makeup-less yesterday and raved about it. I HATE NOT WEARING MAKE UP. He caught me in very good light and my hair looked amazing, but this is rarely the case. It's not what I'm most ...

We are so well suited... But he's not content with JUST me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - I'm a gay man in SF...I'm in a relationship (5) years now with a man who confuses me. I'm 38, he's 53 but the age difference doesn't really matter...in many ways we are well matched. We disagree about sex...I want monogamy, he doesn't. The...

I'm feeling frustrated with the little affection I get from her in public

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - (this is goanna be pieced together kinda oddly, i have allot of scattered thoughts and emotions atm) hey me and my girl have been dating now for 9 months, we love each other dearly, there is no sex in our relationship since she refuses to till ...

I can forgive him for cheating, but my family can't.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years had a great relationship with my family, they loved him. In January he went to Mexico with a group of guys and ended up cheating on me. He told me a few weeks later and we broke up. I was really upset and cried to my mom ...

My inability to orgasm is really frustrating me and my boyfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I can't orgasm! It's really starting to frusterate me, as well as my boyfriend. We've talked about it and at the beginning of our relationship he used to get really mad at me, but he realized that just put pressure on me so now he says he doesn't ...

Age difference. Great relationship. What do I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - Hi all. I am a 50 year old man, who has just had a 3 month relationship with a 27 year old woman. We hit it off straight away and have enjoyed the most fantastic three months together. We have had numerous weekends away in romantic venues and roma...

Can someone text too much?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - I've recently started dating a girl. We've been on 3 dates in two weeks. Currently in the 4th week. Shes been busy this week. (Thats not a fob of story). In the first two weeks we would text a few times aday, a few days a week. Since we've ...

I feel sick around guys I like....please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Hey um... hoping someone out there can help me with this... this has happened 3 times already and I'm starting to wonder if it's going to be like this for 'ever'... here's an example scenario: i like this guy, or at least believe i do; i like the ...

She is ignoring my calls and messages - should I be worried or am I just being immature?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - My gf is mid 30 and I am mid 20. She is married and divorced with a daughter. She been through a bad relationship before. Added with the age gap, sometimes, I don't know if the things I expect her to do is correct. I need some advices bec...

Is my man gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Is my man Gay? I've just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years has been calling a gay chat line every time i'm out of the house. this has been happening for about 5 months. He tells me that he had an addiction to sex chat lines about 8 years...

Very complicated question, for a complicated relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - A little note about myself I've had a long history of depression through out my life. I've been dating a girl for almost two years now. She's 23 years old and I myself am 21. The relationships is a bit odd since we met through the internet and...

I would be the luckiest girl in the world if I married him....but I cant express my feelings to him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Hi guys.. i need a big help.. i love my friends.. i have a guy friend.. i like him a lot.. i use to tel everything to him always. but he is not. he is very calm and stubborn. but he likes me a lot. he use to say that am his dear.many of my friends ...

She says she cannot continue our relationship because she is cheating her parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - i love my girlfriend very much.we even spended some nights together. i was her first boyfriend. she is a girl of 17yrs.. now she says that she cannot continue our relationship further. she says that she is cheating her parents... she says that she ...

He wont even kiss me in front of his friends because he thinks it is a sign of weakness!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Im so confused bout life that its making me dizzy literally in my head! I feel im always running out of time and that if i dont settle down get marrie and another child by 30 it will be too late. My main problem is that im really not happy with the ...

I feel like I am wasting my time!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - when I met my boyfriend 11 months ago he said he was seperated and he and his wife had agreed to a divorce but as neither was in another relationship he did not start any divorce process. He claimed his wife left him, took the kids and lives in ...

Finally moving in with my LDR boyfriend, but I have my doubts he is not the "one"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I have been in this long distance relationship for 4 years, and now we are finally moving in together. But, our relationship has not been in our best. He has lied to me several times, and it has been hard for me to trust him, and we are constantly ...

He said he doesn't "do" relationships

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7 May 2009 (F) - I am really into this bloke I work with but he only ever seems interested at work, I have suggested drinks after work but he has never taken me up on the offer, we have a works night out on saturday and he says he cant wait to see me all dressed up ...

Seeing each other for 6 months but only got to second base?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been official for 4 months now and seeing eachother for about 6 and we're only on second base. The only first move other than kissing he's ever made was to feel me up the first time; since then, I've been the one having to ...

I am at a loss for words with my boyfriend and very shy, can someone give me some topics of conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend and well i always seem to not to talk to him cuz well i have nothing to say so please give meh things to say and well i always seem to get red when i talk to him and im afraid to kiss him im really nervous cant you help meh???? ...

We are in a long distance relationship, does anyone know what to do to get a visa?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - hi im with my lover who currently lives in bodrum i love him so much and want to be with him vis vers hes currently in uni and he wants 2 cum 2 england after hes finished how do i go about getting him a visa what do i need and what do i have 2 do ...

Would this be considered an abusive relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I already posted a question, but it's getting worse.. This clingy, attatched boyfriend is getting rediculous... My phone was messed up and basically unusable. And so I got an old one a friend had given me. It was tmobile, I have att, my boyfriend ...

Attracted to my on again, off again fiancee's brother, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Ok, i have been with this guy for tens years off and on. We met in high school and are now engaged our relationship is rocky at times but i still love him. well i had a crush on his brother first, but at that time he never gave me the time of day. ...

My boyfriend wants to have sex, I don't think I have enough experience tp please him, what do I need to know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - ok im new to the hole sex thing and i really want to hear how to so it by someone that has please my boy friend is really wanting me to do this and i keep telling him to wait so help!!...

How do I deal with my depressed boyfriend, without becoming depressed myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is extremely depressed at the moment. He has a history of depression, and has gone through phases like this before in our relationship, but it's getting much harder lately. I've taken psychology courses, and there is a history of ...

He won't stop drinking...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - ok so i am 18 and i have 2 kids, and am now with the guy i had a crush on for 8 years. hes almost everything ive ever wanted sweet, smart,fun but he cheated on me when he was drunk, and i forgave him, except he still continues to drink after many ...