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Archived questions from: 26 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm starting to wonder about my boyfriend after his "jokey" ways.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - hi, i just found out im pregnant, im 19 and not in the best economic position. ive not been with my boyfriend for long but its grown into a great relationship and feels like we've been together a very long time. We've really been getting along and ...

I love her very much and don't want to lose her... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been going out for just under 8 months. everything was perfect up until last friday. before we started going out i thought she hated me because we had gone out before and broken up. i said some things i shudnt have and i ...

He SEEMED like a genuine, caring guy, but I'm starting to feel that his words don't match his actions.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I feel a little lost. My (ex-)boyfriend of two years recently broke up with me several months ago. During our relationship he cheated on me and disrespected me in many ways. I have been very down, but I have been going out with friends and trying ...

Bringing that spark back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

26 May 2009 (?) - How can I bring back the spark in my relationship with my boyfriend? We've been dating for a little bit over 9 months and the feelings are kinda getting dull. We're always open for fun/new ideas and would do just about anything together....

What can I do to break the ice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I would like to go farther with my boyfriend, but I dont know how to discuss or bring it up with him. He always tells me he wnats to but never does anything like we always make-out but i want a little more like feeling up or just like touching each ...

Heart broken in two...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I need help I cant decide between two guys. I was dating this guy that I was totally in love with but we had to break up because he was going to rehab we had been going out for a year and i really thought he was the one my family wasnt too fond o...

It's been 2 days and no text! What do I do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - So I met a guy, had an amazing first date, ended with a kiss and a promise to see each other again. Before I'd even got home, had a message saying how the enjoyed themselves etc etc. Had a text every morning and throughout the day for the next few ...

Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - is it possible to fall in love with someone u have never met but just spoken on the phone constantly probably a year ...

15 & 23, too big an age gap or too big a risk?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - I'm 23 and have feelings for a girl I meet at a wedding 2 weeks ago. She is beautiful. I couldn't keep my eyes off her all night. Then the bomb dropped, I found out she is only 15! I felt so ashamed even though I didn't act on my feelings, there was ...

Lost and confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - i found out my girl of 11 months had went out with her old boyfriend from a 1.5 years ago.they went to dinner and she doesnt drink but she had a glass of dinner wine and was intoxicated,so she ask to be brought over to her girl friends.well she ...

I think about him day and night!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - hello, i have a crush on a boy who is the same age as me apart from his 15 already and am 14 and half. i cant stop thinking of him day and night, he has diabetes and i sometimes care about him. so can you give advise, please....

Candlelite dinner in park a good idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - Is a candelit dinner in a local park at night sound good or is this too shit? My gf sed she doesnt reali care about how intricate it is so yea. The local park is a big one and its even got its own little lake :) or perhaps i should go to a ...

Date will be without alcohol this time and I'm nervous!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I have a date tonight with a man ive seen 3 times but each time we was drunk and was out partying...tonight have to meet him from work with no alcohol....im so scared he will take one look at me and be like yuck....im so nervous to the point my ...

Dating more than one person at a time? Bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I would like some opinions from you guys on how you feel about dating more than one person at the same time... I know there may be cultural differences here - I think in the US it is pretty normal for people to date a few people until one become...

My mum thinks my boyfriend is abusive but I want to move closer to him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - okay my family LOVED my boyfriend up until we had a massive argument and I told my mum everything that he's done (he's not done anything abusive, but he does small things like reads my texts, hacks my email, reads my msn history, doesn't let me talk ...

Should I wait a while and hope things change or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Im really in a confusing situation. Ive been seeing this man for a while now.he says he loves me and i love him. We do have a special bond and i just cant c myself with anyone else.prob is hes been a bad lad in his life. Had lots of women and hes ...

Any advice on how I can start to talk to a guy I met on Myspace?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (?) - hey :) i know this is a bit of a long shot but anyways i have myspace like most people, and just then i cam across this nice lad - so i added him. he accepted. and i really want to like start to talk to him or something but i don't know how to go ...

Does he actually care about me if he is ok with me having other boyfriends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I don't live in the same city. He says he is completely in love with me, but he doesn't do anything about us moving together to share a relationship. He is actually in the position to do that, to create a circumstance for me moving ...

Handsome boyfriend and lustfull female colleagues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Hi guys, this happened at the weekend and I just want your thoughts. My bf and I went to his works do at the weekend and there were five women there that he works with. One of the lady managers had gotten quite drunk and every time she talked with ...

He's only interested atfer I stopped making the effort with him....should I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Ok so I was/am dating this guy, who for the last month went all weird saying he was too busy to see me etc. It took me by surprise because just prior to that he was saying how much he liked me and how he'd miss me when I went home and how he couldnt ...

Party, boys and fear! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Please help me! So, I have liked this boy for over a year and half. About 6th months ago I admitted it... and now we have become closer and relli good friends. My friend said that he has changed around me recently. So we were all on the bus... an...

Violent boyfriend has left his things at my house but I don't want to be near him right now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half. i am 20 and he is turning 23 next month.he suffers from depression and anxity. today he out of the blue got really mad and broke his computer. he smashed it and ran out of my house. later ...

Do opposites really attract?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - right i'm 19 years old i'm meeting this girl today after she finishes work. i'm a bit nervous like we are totally different but i am really attracted to her and stuff. she's 20 and really shy she's also nervous about meeting today she's never ...

What do you think about a letter for our 4 month anniversary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - Should I write a letter for our 4th month anniversary? I personally have been feeling a lot of strain, but apparently thats just me and my over reading of everything.. which I admit, I can get very, very insecure at times.. Besides, Ive realised for ...

He has never lied to me before but I'm finding it hard to believe these text mesages are just a misunderstanding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - This is my strange story that i really need help with.... Okay, my boyfriend and i where out on saturday, we went to one of the local car and bike show, he parked rather far from the pits, he asked me to go and get a few things out the car after ...

Why do men want sex from their girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Why men in love want to have sex with their woman? My boyfriend keeps telling that he really wants to make love to me. And that he misses me when we are not together...Its not that he pressures me to have sex with me but he keeps mentioning about ...

Is he going to break up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so I have a theory that after the 5 or 6th month of a relationship, it either finishes or it blossoms. I'm in between the 5th and 6th month of a relationship with my current boyfriend. We haven't said "I love you" in a serious or formal way, but ...

Emotionally unavailable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I have told to the man i was dating last year that it's better to stay friends, since we meet each other for very little time and he usually doesn't have time for me. Sometimes suddelny he wants to be together and i try to avoid him although i like ...

Clueless when it comes to girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - hi everyone. this is a question about my friend when i was 16. she always liked talking to me, we always talked almost everyday, she got jealous when i talked to her cousin and we played this game where we love the other person than stuff we really ...

Want a meaningful relationship, how do I get noticed by guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - well this has been troubling me for a while and I was hoping someone could give me a little insight as to what I should do. I'm 20 years old and I have the hardest time getting noticed by guys it's as if I'm invisible to the opposite sex. They ...

Broke up, back together, he is distant and non-responsive, did he stop caring for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - We broke up. I asked for him back because i still loved him. Then we got back together. But he never calls me. Only I call him. He never tells me that he misses me anymore. What does this mean? i don't wanna be annoying so I would let a week go by ...

Any suggestions on how to have a great male, anal sex experience, which color lingerie is sexier?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

26 May 2009 (?) - I am a male and take on the role of the woman in my relationships with other men. I am a crossdresser and dress like a woman and love wearing lingerie. I give blowjobs and want to recieve anal. I have not yet but my bf wants to do me anally . Any ...

Sent my ex pictures and love songs, now worried I shouldn't have done it, what do you think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I recently wrote a post about my ex and I breaking up due to me saying some things to himas he had frustrated me so bad and I had tolerated for so long though I kept apologising to him for long. It's been about a month now though. I sent him some...

Several guy questions, what is your opinion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Especially shy guys, but guys in general. Do they feel pressure to ask the girl out that they like? If they do does that help give them the courage to go ahead and do it? Are they likely to wait a long time like until the last possible moment before ...