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Dating: Help and advice

What do you think is going on here? I don't know what to think...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 3 years now, and i really care about him. But we have hit a rough patch these past few months. He isn't being very nice, and certainly not sweet and romantic. I talked to him and he said he would try to be nicer. But ...

She says she does some crazy stuff sometimes and doesn't want to hurt me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (M) - A girl that i had been talking to for a few weeks now, and had plans to date me down the road after some other guys got left her alone because she had no interest in them. Well they have and she sent me a message saying that she didn't want to date ...

What does he want for God's sake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - please help me with this, i have known this guy for a good while and l liked him from the start, we talk to each other almost everyday for hours, the thing is that.. i know that he is trying to make me jealous; talking about other girls to me. he ...

He kept joking to her about running away with her. Am I wrong for feeling disrespected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is older than me so his crowd is usually men and women (husbands and wives about his age) last weekend he had a gathering and just went on and on joking with one of his friend's wife, about how they should run away together and she ...

I want to ask her out, but don't know what to suggest, or if it really is the next step?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

18 May 2009 (M) - I need to know what to do next in a potential relationship. (I am in uni btw) It has taken me a while to realise how much she really does like me. We met five months ago and have been meeting semi-regularly or regularly for nearly 4 months. ...

I told him I like him but he has a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Well i have liked this boy for about ages now and i finally told him ( over msn lol ) and he said he sorta likes me aswell but he has a girlfriend and when my bestmatee said to him why dont you dump your girlfriend and go out with louise he said no ...

2 weeks into my relationship and I've kissed another guy. Now I don't know what to do. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Two weeks into the relationship and i've already kissed another guy whilst drunk... I feel awful I know how bad this sounds I really do. I went over my alcohol limit and stupidly kissed some random guy...It's tearin' me up I know it's only two we...

What is the best chat up line?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (M) - I need some advice please.. I came out of a long term relationship last august and its all most been a year and i think i am now ready to go and meet some one new so me and some friends are going out on the weekend (first time i have been out pr...

Should I wait a bit more to ask her out?

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18 May 2009 (M) - When everything seemed to be going nicely her closest cousin passes away and it affects my relationship with her. I was going to ask this girl out and i even kissed her in that day that all this happened. So now i dont know what next cause i feel t...

Sex or compassion..which one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - i am in love with two men. the one pleases me like you wolud not believe in the bedroom. our souls connect an we make love like no other. the second man gives me everything in a healthy relationship needed! (attention, respect, makes me laugh, ...

Going nowhere...AGAIN

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18 May 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy kind of over the past few weeks and I'm getting the feeling that it's going no where... again. The first couple of weeks were great, he took me out and we got along so well. I thought 'ya know, maybe this is it...' Well ...

Cut and paste MSN drama. Can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Hey I’m 16 and nearly 17 and just come out of a relationship. The guy I was with was amazing, I wasn’t with him long (only 5 weeks) but me and him really clicked together, and on our second date he asked me to be his girlfriend. He’s 20 got a ...

21st birthday present for my g/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (M) - ladies out there i could really use some advice. my galfriend is turning 21 in 2 days n i would lyk 2 knw wat would make a female happy for her 21st birthday? what do woman expect 4rm their boyfriends on their 21st birthday? plz help me out in any ...

What should be the next step?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

Get over the issue? Or get over the girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 1 year and 5 months. I feel at this point that i was in over my head when i got together with my current girlfriend. I fell in love early in the relationship before i really got to know her. Before the rel...

Guys: Would you stop liking a girl if she was stupid?

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18 May 2009 (F) - guys,would you still like a girl(now you like her a lot) that got just a bit lower grades at an exam than you did?and you know she did better than you at every contest you went at?would you consider her stupid and stop liking her?would this stop you ...

First date--unsure what to do, what to talk about

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - tonight im going on my first date but im way nervous!!! ahh! im sure it will go fine but i dont know what to expect! im worried im going to come across nervous or that i wont have mauch to say or that we wont like each other. help! how can i ca...

Do I continue with my new boyfriend or see if I can work things out with my other friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - So i had this guy friend, and we decided to start a courtship... and it did go well, but later on he made up these stupid excuses like" you remind me of myself when i was like that" and "your voice sounds like a 13 year old, your so imature" "your a ...

Please help, I'm really upset. Do you think I'll ever get another chance with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - My ex and I have known each other for about 9 months, we work in the same place but in different departments, we were friends for 6 months and we were gf/bf for 3 months. I'm six years older then my bf I'm 28 but we act and look the same age and ...

Commitment phobic...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Hi I’d like your advice, about 4 weeks ago I met a guy on an internet dating website who I was initially extremely forward with me. I saw his pics on line and we chatted online for a while and he seemed really nice and intelligent as he has his own ...

Is this an STD? I'm scared... help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Ok basically im 18. i was having oral fun with my boyfriend (my 1st) and then his semen was like white/water (maybe precum?) then dark yellow. he even said oh its dark yellow lol... he's only had a sex with some girls and always used protection ...

I feel threatened by her and I wish I wasn't so insecure.

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18 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been back together for a few motnhs. We have been doing pretty well..or so i thought. My ex best friend had gone out with him behind my back, almost a year ago. I have put it in the past, and i feel like he has earned my ...

I didn't think I wanted children, but now I'm rushing into relationships because my friend has a baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - im 21 and ive only really been in one serious relationship, when i was in that relationship (from i was 14 to i was 18) we had talked about having children and i really wanted kids because i was settled and living in my own home with my partner but ...

I think I love her but she's so childish!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 May 2009 (M) - i have been dating this girl for seven months and i have begun to love her.we are like 21 now.nearly everyday she behaves like a kid.if something goes wrong i am the one getting blamed. she often praises about herself that she is really pretty. her, ...

Asked her to meet up but it went a bit wrong, now I've not heard from her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (M) - Hi all, just a strange situation goin on and would like some input. Ive been chattin to a girl and we arranged to meet up, then on the day of the date she kinda gets flaky to which i send her an email stating a few things to put her mind at rest if ...

Is it really a bad idea to tell her I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (M) - Afternoon Aunts and Uncles. I'm finding myself in a strange situation. I'm seeing a girl its fairly new. Infact we've had about a 5 dates, and if anyone asked i would have to answer we have not reached the stage of Girlfriend and boyfriend...

He is in a relationship but wanted to sleep with me...what is he thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - im still madly in love with my ex and cant seem to get over him at all no matter what i do hes always in my thoughts... we slept together on a few occasions i only slept with him because im still really in love with him and thinking he might be ...

Thinking about changing myself so I can get him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - ok, last time i asked this i dont think i got enough answers, i need to hear everyones opinion, cuz im really stuck and madley stupidly in loveee me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. and during a break in these 2 years i had sex ...

Why doesn't he keep in touch he appears to really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Hi guys, I'm new to this, never really posted a question before. Basically i've known this guy for many many years.. i used to fancy him LOADS about 5 years ago when i met him but let's just say, i was too young and hadn't got my looks then! Ho...

He has two children, am I being selfish and can this relationship ever work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Ok im 22 nearly 23, and just started dating a new guy who's 29, 30 next year....we got on so great then we had a heart to heart and i found out he has two kids from his last relationship aged 6 and 10.....im confused now! How could this ever wor...

He thinks he can change but is it fair for me to ask that of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - I was in an online relationship for nearly 4 years until i met and made a friend. Through this new friendship i realised wanted i really wanted from a relationship. It made me realise that my online relation wasn't the "great" thing that i had ...

Am I making a big mess of my life or do I just need to let fate decide for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - My life is going through a pretty turbulent patch at the moment and I would like to get some opinions on what direction I should be going in and whether I am making a big mess of things at the moment! Basically I have just found out I am losing ...

Divorce and dating.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (M) - How long should a person expect someone to wait on them if they are in the process of a divorce? Is it fair for the one waiting to date someone else?...

He built up my hopes for nothing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - ok so i met this really amazing guy he was so sweet and stuff calling me all the things i've always wanted to hear in my life and i thought finally!!! i'm going to have the relationship i've always wanted! so i wanted to meet up with him Satur...

Relationship starts within two weeks of meeting and now he wants sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (?) - I met this cute guy in my local gym two weeks ago. We had a little chat, two days later he asked for my number. I gave him and immidiately he told me he liked me and wanted me to be his galfriend. I didnt take him seriously at first because it was ...

IF he likes me he has a weird way of showing it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - This is a long story and for that I'm sorry..well the situation is that I have a crush on this guy who is named Pedro.For the past couple of weeks I believe that I have gotten some hints which is leading me to think that maybe he might like me.I'll ...

How do I change my own behavior in regards to his actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Currently I'm dating a man I find somewhat challenging, and that is part of the reason I'm dating him. He's very flirtatious with other women, and since he is very attractive and lavish with his attention to them, they give him a lot of attention ...

He said "I love you" and I think it was too soon, what now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Well I just started seeing this guy and well I really like him. But he asked me to be his girl friend a few days after I met him and then one night I went over to his house and he told me he loved me. I think that was way way to fast. What should I ...

Should I tell him I cheated? What he doesn't know won't hurt him, right?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - I have made a huge mistake, And when I was drunk last week at a party I cheated on my boyfriend and had sex with another guy. My boyfriend doesn't know as i'm too frightened to tell him, because I know it would be over as soon as I do tell him. ...

I am anxious about her touching me "there" because of size

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

18 May 2009 (M) - I have a problem... okay im in a very open relationship with my girlfriend and we really like eachothe. everythingis great and we've been going out for a few monts...but lately i've noticed she's been getting a little touchy feeely...i know she...

Please give me some advice I do not won't any rude replies.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Hello: I was dating a guy who's religion was Jehovah's Witnesses, we only dated a short while he told me a little after we started dating, we dated when my daughter was younger and he had joined them. Ok here yesterday I call he tells me the rel...

I'm still a virgin and I'd like to keep it that way!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Okay, First i'm sorry if this has already been asked before... But here we go. Well about a year ago, i started dating a guy, that i eventually thought i was in love with. He was kind of a jerk, he took things really fast, as in he tried to make...