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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Going to meet his family but I'm not allowed to kiss him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Ok, I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He asked me to meet his family who live 5 hours away. I said yes. We are going to spend a week with them at the end of the month. Yesterday he told me that we wouldnt be able to sleep in the same room ...

Is it more simple that I'm thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - I have recently started seeing a women who is in her early 20's. We're very different, but she always has a way to make me smile. The problem is she does confuse me in the way she acts around me. For example she goes very hot and cold. We'll have...

New feelings, renew the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - Me and this girl, we've known each other for like long than I can remember, we're best friends, back in 06 round february time we broke up after a 9 month relationship witch ripped us both appart for quite a while, we're both close again, then early ...

She showed up late, made me pay, then texted another guy during a date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - Heya, this is going to sound rather stupid but whatever. Not too long ago, I went to the cinemas with a girl who comes into the shop I work at. I was very optimistic about how the evening would go, but I knew it was going to go bad when she sho...

I don't want to feel rejected...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I broke up with a boyfriend who i was with for a year and a half as you know. We both still get jealous when we each date, but im assuming that is normal. Another guy asked me out and i said yes partially to make my ex jealous. i don't have any ...

Compromises for the economics of love and friendship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

13 May 2009 (?) - This has a multi-part question and may be a bit long. I apologize beforehand for the misfortune of having anyone read it, if they choose to. As I age, I have grown weary of the economics of all kinds of relationships. Lingering friendships that...

Did she do all this as a trap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Hiya guys, i really need some help on this one, im compleatly devestated over this, my ex bf of 9 months has just told me that his new gf of 4 months is pregnent, im more upset because he told me that he didnt want anymore children, The other th...

What is a casual relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Just wandering what peoples thoughts are of what a casual relationship is? Ive been with my boyfriend nearly 3 yrs. We dont live together and we see each other bout 3 to 4 times a wk. Never been on hol. Hes 30. Goes out drinking allday with his ...

How to not think long term when dating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Hello I've had quite a few bad relationships in the past, and I think the issue was because I had low self esteem I didnt think I was worth better. I've had intensive therapy over the last six months to raise my confidence and at last I get it, and ...

Breaking it off early the right thing to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - Hi I'm a pretty laid back intelligent guy in his early 30s who hasn't had any long term relationships so am a bit inexperienced. I guess I would say I'm quite shy and lack a bit of self-esteem. I went out with someone I met on the internet re...

Said he'd text me but he hasn't yet

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Okay new boyfriend. It's been a week officially. We've been talking everyday since he got my number, but yesterday he REA llY dessapointed me. I have bipolar disorder and havent been taking my meds because i dont like the side effects, so maybe i'...

18th birthday present for b/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I need help with buying my boyfriend's 18th birthday present! I know that he really wants to buy a bag but it is worth about $120 which I find a bit too pricey for me. Any other ideas for good presents? I know he doesn't want any clothing, and he's ...

How to get a straight answer from a guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Ive slept with this guy a couple of times, and its been really great and we get on so well. but i dont know if its just me hes sleeping with or ..i just dont know? (btw its long to explain but hes your typical guy that doesnt make much effort t...

Is silence a deal breaker in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating a lovely man for a year now and am just wondering what it really takes to make a relationship work. He is my first serious long term boyfriend and so this question comes from a place of not knowing what to really focus on as the ...

Will I scare him away?

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13 May 2009 (F) - I really love this guy, can't stop thinking about him, even though i know nothing will ever come of it as im pretty sure he doesn't feel the same. I don't know where i stand and if i ask him ill probably scare him off. I want him in my life no ...

His "bedroom talk" really confused me and now he doesn't contact me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - ive been kind of seeing this guy since january i found that he really liked me and made the mistake of sleeping with him the first night.He started talking about would i have anymore kids and marriage and i freaked and later on i told him i wouldnt ...

I really like him but don't want this to just be a "work thing"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I need some advice, I have liked this guy I work with for a couple of years, he shows an interest and is always checking me out, we have never been on a date (I have asked once and something came up and he couldn't make it), we french kissed about ...

I never get asked out properly, but am offered "one offs"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Can I ask a question about blokes, I mean I have always thought if a guy likes you he will ask you out proper but guys never ask me out they always offer one-offs, my friends keep saying that's what blokes do now, they don't want to commit to going ...

He stopped talking to me because people gossip all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I have guy friend he stop talking to me b cause people gossiping about us he never respond to my call I'm 5 years older than him we love each other I don't why he hate me now .he never had a girlfriend before. Should I keep calling him cause I ...

Had sex with a guy who likes to break up relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for a year and a half. for a while we were having trouble with our relationship because we are both full time students in college and we live an hour away from each other. I have this co-worker that I had a crush on. He lead me ...

Does he want out? Or is he just sulking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I really need some advice! My partner, whom I live with, had a big tantrum. He was having trouble with his internet and asked me to call up the provider about it. I used to work for the company and was having a chat with the operator as the systems ...

Why is it so hard for a man to forgive a woman if she steps out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Will someone please tell me why is it so hard for a man to forgive a woman if she steps out. I loved my boyfriend very much and was faithful to him for years. He was married when I met him and was suppose to be getting a divorce. Not only that, I ...

Which one to date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Okay I'm going out with someone, who I like as an older brother, and well my crush from like the being of the semster just asked me out and I don't know who if I should go out with him or just stay with the guy I'm with....

Boyfriend in the army?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - well i have a problem is about me and my ex-boyfriend. well he is going to graduate this year and im going into my junior year. nd well he had broken up with me bcuz he had to go to the army nd well i dont know, bcuz we still have feelings but im ...

Stay or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for 4 years. We stoped talking only because he was respecting the fact that I was in a relationship at the time, and I was a little too young (He didn't want my parents to be mad.) We just recently got back together ...

Getting to Second

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - I'm 13 and im having trouble getting to 2nd. every girl ive dated never wants to go that far. Do you have any tips on moving from 1st to 2nd?...

Should I wait or should I give in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I am a high school student. i am 16 and my boyfriend is also 16. i have been with him since oct.23.08. it's been about 6 months.I truly do believe i am in love with him. I also belive he is too. he says it. he shows it. and i fall for it. he can be ...

It's been 4 months and he says we haven't been together too long - so what does he consider awhile?

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13 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend took me to meet the extended family. We had dinner and a really good conversation.. got along well, I think. Anyways, as we're about to leave and talking to the uncle..he asks 'So, how long have both of you been dating?' My ...