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Archived questions from: 17 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't know how to break up with her in a peacful matter that'll work out fine for both of us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year now. We're both still young. We moved into an apartment after about four months of dating, it's both of our first times on our own and we're completely dependent on each other. The entire spark, the ...

How long does a women want a man to last in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

17 May 2009 (M) - How long should a man last in bed? How long does a women want a man to last?...

How do I get rid of his current crazy girlfriend???

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17 May 2009 (F) - I dated this guy named Rj, before we started dating we were the best of friends. I knew once we got in a relationship, it would ruin everything. He would constantly ask me out, saying i was the perfect girl blahblahblahblah and he didn't wanna lose ...

It's like Romeo and Juliet, a family fight forbids our love... help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - I am 15 and he is 15. We have fallen for each other deeply but we can't be together because our familes got in a fight and completly hate each other and even hate the fact that we go to the same school but can't move due to the economy... we only ...

I don't want to end up single for the rest of my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 21 years old and have had a couple short term boyfriends since I was 17. I used to be quite confident before I started getting boyfriends/male interest but I feel that as a result of bad experiences with the last boyfriend, my confidence ...

What's going on with him here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so, some background: me and my boyfriend have been together a year and a half. I was at his house this evening and for dinner we had burgers and salad [with onions]. Later on in the evening, we were sitting on his bed and, im not sure how it ...

Wait and try to get back with my Ex or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (?) - Hi, everyone, Last night I atteneded prom with a good friend of mine. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months only a week ago. I love my ex so very much. I like my prom date as a potential boyfriend. All that being said, I'm not yet over my ex. ...

My b/f's ex reveals she likes me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (M) - my best friend's ex gf reavels she 'likes' me after breaking up with him. although i like her too, she says we can't date because of the fact that she wants to leave in peace. what should I do to convince her to give ourselves a chance? i'd ...

Just friends or does he like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

17 May 2009 (M) - So im gay and ive been friends with this guy for about two years. he knows im gay and he used to say he was bi but ive started to pretty much fall in love with him. and it seems like when he found out that i liked him, he decided that he was ...

Are all the guys my age only looking for one thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - i am so bad at dating lol no but seriously i was with my x on n off since i was 14 im now 20 and single and i just cant stand it. im so use to having smeone ther all the time and i miss it i enjoy my space dont get me wrong but i want a boyfriend. i ...

How can I get the confidence to approach girls without feeling rejection

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

17 May 2009 (M) - i am 22 and very insecure. i have never had a proper g/f and find it hard to approach girls for fear of rejection. i portray myself as a carefree individual but that could not be further from the truth. i take negative comments very personally. i ...

He says if I can change he might be with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - ok this is really complicated so i really need help me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. and during a break in these 2 years i had "a thing" with this other guy. then me and my boyfriends got back and now hes finished it with...

Single for 8 months! So hard to meet someone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - Hi i find it so hard to meet someone. Ive been single 8 months. I really want to be with someone i get really lonely. Ive never had a one night stand and never want to. My friends have. And sometimes i just feel boring cos i dont like to get drunk ...

He made it clear he won't commit! So why is he questioning me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - We have been going out for years, he moved away for a job, he told me to do what I need relationship wise regardless of what he does. We still meet up every couple weeks. We still have great sex, fun, very compatible. I know he's trying or is going ...

I don't know if I should walk away or just be a little more patient

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17 May 2009 (F) - i moved to here around 5 years ago so my natural social network is not in where i live now. especially now i find it more difficult than ever as i started working full-time and most of my uni friends are gone back to different places. but this ...

Best friend cheated with my b/f and now I think she might be trying again to get him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out again and things have been really great. But in the past, him and one of my best friends had gotten together behind my back for a month. It has been almost a year now and i have forgiven both of them and have ...

What to do when your very first moment occurs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - hi :D I was just wondering what to do when your very first "special moment" comes. My friend had one the other day but she said she completely messed it up. There's a guy I really like, who also likes me and so basically I was wondering what to ...

Do I miss my ex? Or just having female companionship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (M) - Ok, I've only ever had one girl I have ever loved in my entire life and our relationship didn't end to well. She dated on me two years ago and I've still yet to find the right girl for me. I miss her but do you think it's more a fact of missing her ...

He says he's not physically cheating...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 10 years. We finally planned to marry. He works out of town for weeks at a time then comes home for a week. I have caught him several times on porn sites and webcamming on adult sites. He says he's not physically ...

Should I ask him to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - im 14 i had a boyfriend he was 15 we broke up 3 months ago and two weeks ago he calle me and asked if i wanted to go with him to a disco... offcourse i sai yes because i love him... and in the disco he star dancing with me ten he huge me and woul...

Turning 30 and becoming a little desperate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - I am turning thirty this year and I think I am becoming a tad desperate. My friends and relatives are getting married left, right and centre, and here I am without so much as a boyfriend. 1) When I went home for Christmas last year I met this ...

I'm so lonely...but it's never going to happen for me and I cant change it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - help im so lonely! i have friends. i have family. but i feel depressed and lonely! i want a boyfriend, someone to love me! everyone says, it will happen but im tired and restless of waiting. ive never had a bf and im 2o! i know what my probl...

Really would like the opinion of the females here...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - I had always been the tom boy, until the past three months (I guess). I am head over heels for the greatest guy I have ever met...he is younger than me, not very confident, virgin, not outgoing at all, pretty much we are complete opposites, but he ...

How can I break down this wall.. and let someone else in again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - How do I get over my trust, controlling, and commitment issues, so I don't ruin things with this guy that I really like! I'm fifteen years old, and I've had two what i'd like to call 'serious' boyfriends since 2007. The first relationship I h...

I'm sick of the fighting! Am I not seeing his side or do I just walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - I just want some raw honest advice. I have been with this guy for over a year. I love him, he loves me. He would NEVER cheat on me, he is financially stable, if I ask him to do something (reasonable) he always does. We just aren't getting something. ...

Do men like independent women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - I'm very independent, I know so many people but I dont have a group that I regularly hang out with. I like being by myself and sometimes spending a lot of time with certain people bugs me. Dont get me wrong, I'm not a misanthrope lol but I can take ...

I NEED a girl in my life...!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

17 May 2009 (M) - I can never seem to find the right girl. I can't stand being alone. My mom left around age 9, so I think thats a factor to why I need a girl in my life. I always feel alone, unloved and need someone to be there for me. Basically like a mom, but ...

He is making me feel guilty for being happy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - I am 18 years old and split up with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years after all of your advice (thankyou to all thse who replied). he belittled me everyday and made me angry. now that i am single again, i started seeing a guy called david. he made me ...

Why would his late wife's mother want me over for dinner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriends wife died over 30 years ago and I can't imagine how hard that must be, they had two sons together too. The problem is that he approached me and said his sons grandmother asked him and our new son over for dinner but I was invited also. ...

Suddenly there is this distance between us. I don't know what went wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - I m 18 year old.n in luv wth a classmate of mine for past 8 year. nothng changed but i dont know why a distance grew betweem us. he is the same but i dont know what went wrong? ...

How do I get him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - i am 15 and so is he. i really like him and i think its a possibility that he could like me back. what i really want to know though is how to get him away from the group. we are going on a camping trip with a load of friends and i want to make the ...

A very complicated situation for me....I could use your advice.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - I'd love some advice about my situation...hoping you can help. Yes, the answers may seem obvious, but here's what's happened. I met a group of guys at my golf course about 20 months ago. They were older than me but fun. They had been friends for a ...

He's so 'hot' and 'cold' with me, I don't think I love him anymore..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - over the past 5 months I have been having an on and off relationship with my boyfriend. Although he's been acting really off lately and hardly talks to me anymore, leaving me to start conversations. I've asked him if he's okay and he seems fine. I ...