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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I used to have a girlfriend (I'm also female)and I get on well with lads and identify as being bisexual. Because of this, everyone I know assumes that I'm sexually experienced. In reality I've slept with my ex- girl but never got beyond kissing a boy. I find hard to trust people, so I don't know how to go about telling a guy that I'm still a virgin in case he laughs. I've moved away from relationships in the past when they started to get serious because I felt pressured to open up to someone else and to be around them all the time. I want to meet someone and eventually fall in love, but that's not going to happen if I constantly reject everyone because of paranoia. If you've got any advice, it would be very much appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): We guys can be a lot more sensitive than you think - or than we're prepared to admit! I'm willing to bet that most guys would be perfectly happy with you being a virgin and maybe even respect you more for it.And the ones who laugh... well, are they really the kind of guys you want to be involved with anyway?I can only speak for myself, but I would far rather be with a virgin than with a girl who's had plenty of guys - inexperience is in no way unattractive (I only had my first time when I was 22).
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