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Dating: Help and advice

He's still checking his online profile

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 6 weeks and he is still checking his online dating profile. I even caught him looking online several days ago but didn't say anything. We have not had an exclusive conversation and so far he spends a lot of time with me, ...

I think I did the right thing but why do I feel so sad now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I was dating this guy for a couple months. He told me that he doesnt believe in labels and that we are not boyfriend/girlfriend but we'll just go with the flow. Even though I told him I dont do anything without a commitment, he asked for oral sex. ...

Girl likes boy, boy likes girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - ok, so theres this boy i've known about for 9 months now. i told him i liked him in january, and he was cool with it. i really like him. he told me last month that he liked me too! he sent me a text message this one night asking "what would yo...

I'm registered to a dating website, but I never get a reply. What makes a good opening message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - Hey, I'm registered to a dating website. What is a good opening message to send to a girl your interested in? Any time I send a message, girls seem to read it and either deleted or not reply. It'd be nice to get a reply. What can I do?...

She won't like the age gap

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Im 17 and my boyfriends 23, ive known him since ive been 14, and for many reasons we didnt get together but now we love each other so much. Next week im going to live with my mum which is about 3 hours away from him and i want him to come and stay...

FWB or more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - i was naive and had never been in a proper relationship before, so when a gorgeous, charming boy starting showing an interest in me, i forgot all my morals and started having sex with him pretty soon. In hindsight i would never have done this as its ...

Should I be jealous of his past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (?) - I am very in love with my boyfriend of two years, the only problem is my extreme jealousy which tears me up inside. he has had one other major relationship in his life and a few other fairly major relationships whereas he is my first boyfriend and ...

I feel like the most boring, ugliest, most bitter person ever! What do I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I don't know whether I'm depressed or what. But I don't feel ok. I don't feel very happy. Ok, so let's see. This has been happening for a while, but usually I feel bad because of boredom and because I feel I lack something. I have some hobbies but...

Is she really busy or just not ready to see me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - I have been dealing with a lot of insecurities and issues recently but kept many of them to myself as I didn't want to seem "weak" or unattractive to a female friend I'm very very close with. Recently we were at a party and after seeing her...

I was going to ask him out in a few days but now I'm not sure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - okay i like this boy and he likes me too. everything was going great last week.. until friday. we were speaking and smiling and everything to each other. but on friday i seen him at lunch at school and he walked past and i think he said hi to me but ...

Country girl finding it impossible to find love

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - i have very basic question. how do i get a boyfriend how do i get a guy to fancy me.even though i am fat,short,plain looking,30+ age and feel over the hill and no guy be interested in me because older and no longer in my 20s .who shy and find it ...

Everyone else is in love with my boyfreind,why cant I be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Hi i need help ,I'm in a relationship that I see going nowhere, He loves me to bits my family adore him,I think they like him even more than they like me,he is perfect. I cant talk to him ,I don't find his jokes funny ,we cant laugh together ,I ...

Is he lying to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - This is a matter about my boyfriend, i have a feeling he is lying to me. Yesterday well he was visiting me i was sitting next to him on the couch when one of his mates called to ask if he and i will be going to motor practice on saturday and if we ...

I can't cope with this LDR am I asking too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I've been in this long distance relationship for 16 months.... We started out that way so I have accepted the fact that we're thousand of miles apart and that is not a problem for me to handle. I believe that long distance relationship is like any ...

Am I wasting my time with this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Right now I'm in a very unhappy relationship. I have no idea what my boyfriend is feeling or thinking! Here is some basic information: - He is the same age as me - We were great friends for years before becoming a couple - We've been dating fo...

Am I really a dumb b*tch? That's what he said! Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - “Sometimes you must allow yourself to go through some hurtful things so you can become strong because you were emotionally weak”. (My quote) ***This is long, but not boring*** Were do I begin! I'm in love with an ex-con who had it together, but...

Difference between love and lust...can you tell me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I want to know what is the difference between love and lust how to find out because when ever i meet my boyfriend we have sex......

His condom came off..inside of me. What could happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend recently just had sex for the first time and we were both Virgins. It was quite painful but he made sure that we went at my pace and that i was okay with everything. There was more blood then i expected as well, we did use...

He accuses me of cheating..how do I deal with his temper tantrums and foul language?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Me and my fiance are going through a very rough patch. We've been together for 2 years and he recently proposed. We were friends for about 5 years before we started our relationship and I felt I knew him inside out. Many people told me I had ch...

Depressed and in an abusive relationship, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Hello Before i start i want to just say this is a long one so please read carefully. Ok so here goes me and my partner met in august 2006 and in december 2006 we split because my bf was so controlling he didnt like me talking to other guys an...

Is my boyfriend pushing me away because he is joining the Air Force?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

3 May 2009 (?) - I'm not really sure what to do about my boyfriend of over 2 years. Were both young, I'm 17 and he's a few months younger. To begin with, we were ace, we'd been best friends always, and although I had a bit of a rocky past, he took me regardless an...

I attract men a lot younger and a lot older than I should. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I'm currently 18 soon to be 19 and I don't know why but I get the wrong attention from guys. When I'm out in college I get guys at least 25+ hitting on me and when I'm in town I get 14-16 year olds trying to have a go aswell. I really don't und...

Do you think he is using me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Im in a relationship and have been for nearly two months. I dont really like relationships so when i do get into one its no long term. The first few weeks was great he took me to the movies, we met each others parents and i think its fair to say t...

She's had sex with possibly 30 plus guys and I have issues with it!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - Hi everybody Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. Im 20 and she's 23. I seem too keep on having an issue with her past. She's had sex with around 30 guys. Could be more. I myself have been with 17 girls, and as such I a...

Torn between current boyfriend and ex..break up now? break up later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 2 years and I'm planning to break up because I'm not really happy and fulfilled with him. Before him, I was with another guy, in another country and another continent. We lasted for 2 months in a long distance ...

Is he cheating? Or am I just paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - hey everyone. im almost 16, and have been with my current boyfriend for 4 months. latley things have been abit rocky: so let me explain. i have been out with him before, but ended things because he was always really paranoid, but in October ...

I'm so scared to tell her that I like her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - There is a girl at my school. She had a crush on me in primary school, but she wouldn't tell me. The news just got out. I secretly had a crush on her too, but I haven’t told anyone. Now we are in high school, and we hardly ever speak to each other. ...

I'm head over heels for her but..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - Ok hi guys i need some help here's my story.... Here's me a skater kid who loves to party and being with alot of girls and drinking and drugs. And here she is prom queen, prettiest girl in school, and ms.goodie 2shoes. now at my school im known ...

Why am I always paying for things with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I am not a generous person for sure. In fact, I care about spending equal amount of $$$ when I am going out with frds or significant others. For example, I've been seeing this 30 years old grad student for a semester. I just realized we've b...

Should I ask him out or wait on him to ask me out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Hi..im 14 years old and i really really like this boy and i feel so good around him when im talkin to him on the phone or by him..im really just wondering should i ask him out or wait on him to ask me out?? I never really felt this way over a boy be...

Don't like him, but do like him, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Ok, one of my friends asked me out a few times a while ago and I said I couldn't go out with him 'cause I don't like him like that. Everything was fine until our schedules changed at school and we started hanging out a lot more. Now he keeps ...

Dating and I feel trapped like I can't be myself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I'm new to the whole dating thing. I have my first real boyfriend! And I love it, I love him. But there is one thing that I don't get....y do I feel kinda trapped like I can't be the same person. I am a really big flirt so it feels really different ...

Did he think it was a date or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I'm in need of some serious help here. About a month ago a guy messaged me out of the blue on myspace. I didn't really know him, we'd only ever had one class together, but we started talking a lot. He asked me for my yahoo id so we started talking ...

I love my fiance but I just don't know about her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - i everybody my name is zach and i am haveing problems with my feiance jessie i love her to death but i just dont know wat is goin through her head lately cause when i try to talk to her she gets pissy and she always pushs eachother away i dont know ...

Major clues to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - So theres this guy named James in my ILR class. I only met him this year and WOW. In class he always tries talking to me and such. When I see him in the hallway he'll try to block my way and he'll pick me up by my waist and give me a big guy. He ...

I don't want to change for someone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - What am i supposed to do everything is so different now!! Lets start from the begining...my boyfriend lets call him Alex. Well Alex is my first real boyfriend. I never really went out with a guy before i was more one of those people that just likes ...

Why am I always thinking of her?Its been too long

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - hey,dear people. i really have a problem.i used to loved a girl in the college.she 's beautiful,so i try to court her.i do whatever i can do to make her like me,but she refused me.she don't like me and "you are nice guy but i don't like you…"so it's ...

Am I beating my head against a brick wall here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - This is an update to an earlier question. "Jill" and I have been dating for the past three months, and things really took off for us. Before that, we had been friends for several years. It feels like we have such good chemistry, and we just fit ...