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Archived questions from: 19 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is it wrong to fantasise about a girl I personally know while in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Me and the girl I'm seeing are talking about getting more serious but the thing is.. I can't help fantasising about another girl who's just my friend whom casually flirts with me. Does this mean I may become unfaithful in a relationship? I mean, I...

Advice needed... Should we get back together or just remain friends?

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19 May 2009 (M) - okay my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me and its probably been a month or so and well she didn't break up with me we just kinda broke up with each other anyway we broke up cause she liked someone other guy (my cousin), she smoked pot, she ...

Every girl I like doesn't like me... why???

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19 May 2009 (M) - i cant seem to get a girl. I'm not ugly, I constantly get told I'm cute, fun to talk to ect but every girl I like doesn't like me. Why? can anyone help?...

I don't want to be in control at all, I want him to control me.

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19 May 2009 (F) - I'm definitely a girl with a rather large submissive streak, I can understand the reason he wants me to be more 'in-control' dure in sex....because, obviously it adds variety and spice to the relationship and it's a fantasy most men seem to have. ...

I'm good firends with my mate's girlfriend, we slept together and like each other, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - I have known my mate for around 5 years and we have lived together for 2 years. I haven’t seen him for a few months because he is currently abroad. He has been with his girlfriend on and off for around 6 years. They have been back on for at least a ...

Is it illegal for a guy to meet a 16 year old on the internet for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Right I have been debating if I should ask this or not but its been doing my head in. I'm 26 and been talking to this woman on msn for about 3 months. We agreed since i was just out of a relationship that it would just be a bit of fun. Anyway ...

Why am I disappointed? I'm not so excited about the new car!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Why am I disappointed? I'm not so excited about the new car? Ok, so my boyfriend purchased a 'classic' car. It needs tons of repair work. That will take a bit of time to get that baby in good shape again. Anyways, he had said 'first a ...

What can I do to diffuse this situation before it turns really bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 May 2009 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months, we spend every Saturday night at his dad's house with his dad and twin siblings (boy + girl) aged 15. Recently his brother has been paying more attention to me, cuddling up to me, playing ...

Should I tell him I slept with someone else when we broke up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. He as always had a jealousy problem as well as a bad temper. HE has called me every name in the book. He is very spoiled but he also has a lot of issues with his family. I know that he loves ...

Why can I not let go?

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19 May 2009 (F) - Hello, i have been in a relationship for almost two years with someone who has cheated on me once, and planned on meeting another from the internet. I have been told by friends that I more of less gave him the green card to cheat because I did no...

Should I forgive and move on with him?

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19 May 2009 (F) - Sorry this is so long...complicated situation! My b/f and I have been dating for 10 months. I have major trust issues from a past relationship, and in March, I went through his phone and saw that he lied about going out to a bar with a co-worker...

Male tendency

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19 May 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been in a relationship for the past 8 years and we are very possesive but he recently admitted that on screen that is tv or on net if there's a nude women he may be tempted to see that as it's a male tendency to see nude women... so ...

Had sex on second date and now he is making excuses!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Hello. I am 23 year old. I met this guy in the university, he is 29. He didn’t know how to approach me so he started talking with my friend and that is how he got my email. We chatted and invite me to a friend's party, of course with my friend too. ...

Should I ask HIM out?

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19 May 2009 (F) - hey, im in a really difficult position please help? This boy, I have like him for about a year and a half. Recently, he has became a really close friend and always asks me to sit by him on the bus... My sister has told me that he likes me bec...

He loves me...he loves me not!

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19 May 2009 (F) - I am a single mother who has been seperated and divorced for nearly 2 years now. I started dating again while I was going through my divorce and met an amazing man. He had just been through a divorce as well (no kids), and we found it comforting ...

Any advice on moving in with my boyfriend?

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19 May 2009 (F) - So I'm moving in with my boyfriend of over a year. I'm moving away from home for college..the one he's going to. So we've decided that we're going to be moving in together. He's got a 2 bedroom apartment so it's not like if we have an argument I ...

Sex life gone bad.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years. we are very happy and are moving in together next month. However our sex life annoys me. when we first got together I used to get oral sex from her but wasnt allowed to cum in her mouth, we ha...

I feel like I've died inside now I've found out my friend has a boyfriend

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19 May 2009 (M) - My friend (female) is now going out with a guy. Why do I feel like i've died inside ?...

I thought we were so well matched sexually but this is not the case now we have moved in together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - My boyfriend of four years gave a very false impression of his sex drive when we were dating. I had no idea at the time. Now that we are living together and our lives are melded I cop his true sex drive/interest which isn't very much. I was hon...

He broke up with me without a reason but do you think he will come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Hello everyone i need somehelp I went out with a guy for a year and he lives in austria now he dumped me with out reason he broke up with me but didnt explain why? do you think was the reason that he met another girl / is there any chan...

What do women like in a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - [Moderator note - poster had asked 3 seperate questions but merged them together in order to recieve more answers] is being too romantic wrong, do women get put off by things like poems or flowers? what do women like in a man?... How can men la...

Should we spend some time apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Before I start, thanks in advance for any time you take to reply! :-) My b/friend and I have been dating for about a year now. When we first met, as is always the case, he was super damn hot in his fiery sms's, telling me the sexiest things! ...

This guy has been driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - so there's this guy that's been driving me crazy, in both a good and bad way, for about 6 or 7 months now. he's just very back and forth about being social. and i know that's not a personal thing against me. he's just, not the most social person. ...

I want to explore his bum like he explores mines but he's not keen!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Hi I am 24 and have been in a relationship for 9 months with a 30 year old man and it has been great. Our sex during this time has mainly involved me being anally receptive, which I have enjoyed a lot. I have recently asked him if we could switch ...

Troubled relationship... my girlfriend is so frustrating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid... My girlfriend is frustrating me to no end. She is super jealous of my work. I work from home as a freelance web developer. I work sometimes 18 to 20 hours per day. I make time to spend with her when I can. Usually every weekend, a...

I keep finding myself trusting the wrong people...

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19 May 2009 (F) - I have always had trust issues and i keep finding myself trusting the wrong people. When my boyfriend had cheated on me before with one my friends, it became even harder. It's been a long time now and we are back together, but my trust is not ...

Will I ever find someone to love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Is there something wrong with me? Every time I fall in love, I do it with the wrong person, the one that does not love me back. For the first time I found someone (one of my best friends) who i thought felt the same for me, but he's been in a c...

I know I'm ready for marriage, but logically am I too young?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Hello, im 18 years old and my girlfriend is 20 we have been together for a long time now, and she and i have been talking about marriage i know im ready for it and i know she is too.. but logically am i too young?...

We love each other, but she still won't date me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - well im in love with this girl. and she loves me too she says. and well we do everything together and we do everything, like we are going out, we hold hands and cuddle and make love to each other. but she wont date me. she says the time isnt right ...

How can I get out of this rollercoaster cycle me and my ex have gotten into??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - My ex and I dated for 2.5 yrs, and we broke up 1.5 yrs ago. We've had some time apart, but it's never stuck - he always ends up calling and putting himself back in my life, and then I end up falling for him again. (To be clear, this isn't an on ...

Was he only after one thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Was he just after one thing? I was seeing this guy for two weeks. First date went really well as did the second. On the third date we planned to go to the movies (my suggestion) but when he picked me up he was saying that he’d rather order tak...

Does he like me or is he intimidated?

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19 May 2009 (F) - There is this guy that I kind of like. I kind of think he likes me back, but he gives mixed signals. One day he will always be staring at me and when I look up at him he looks away really fast and pretends to be working or doing something else. When ...

Why do I only seem to attract the jerks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - I recently broke up with someone because he only wanted to have sex with me. I didnt do anything with him but he is one of many who just want to sleep with me. I dont know why I only attract the jerks because I dont dress like a slut or sleep around ...

I need to move out, but I don't want to lose his friendship. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Please help I'm not sure what to do. I'm living with a male friend who is also an ex and at first everything was fine until he got a girlfriend. I told him I was moving out and he got upset and begged me to stay, so I did as he had some valid ...

Should I pick the one I'm living with, the ex-boyfriend, or just toss both of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - well here goes. im living with a guy that at the beginning wanted a real relationship. now he says he doesn't wont to fall in love and now he only has feelings of a friend. he waited for 7 months to tell me this. what gives? now an old boyfriend has ...

My girlfriend always has to know WHY!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend always has to know why. It seems like I can't ask her to do anything without her knowing why I want her to do it. For instance, we'll be walking along and I'll say stop (because I want the people behind us to pass us) and she'll k...

My penis won't stay up when it comes time for penetration. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - ok so im a virgin and me and my girl have been doin role play kissing for an hour and my penis is hard through tht tht but once we stop and I want to go N my penis gets soft and I can't get it hard enough to penetrate and im to young for viagra ...

Her grandfather is dying, how can I be there for her and cheer her up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - hi, theres a really huge problem i have, my girlfriend's grandfather is dying and i dont know what to do. i want to cheer my gf up but i just cant seem to find any ways to do so. knowing the fact that i cant do anything about it hurts. i really need ...

We had sex on her period, could she be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - my gf and I had sex. she was still on her period, I didn't ejaculate in her at all, (didn't even come close). the only default is that i didn't wear a condom... is there a chance she could get pregnant and if so, what are the chances?...

I feel like he doesn't trust me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for three years and things are good between us, he treats me well and is always there when I need him. But the problem is he always asks questions that I find unnecessary like: "did you meet anyone today and did ...

Shes likes me, but doesn't like it....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - I have started seeing a women who is a few years older than me. Shes lovely, sweet and can just make me smile. Her last relationship was around 7 months ago and ended horribly, from what i am aware of he was strongly violent towards her, causing ...

I'm looking a boyfriend with out making holy show out myself.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - I feel at age i should have at least one decent boyfriend, a nice genuine guy but i have none. Any guy i like turned out to be rotten to me always been nasty to me. i feel guys have more opportunity to meet girls because girls are chasing guys ...