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Archived questions from: 2 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She's younger and I'm wondering..if it would be right to date her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I'm in year 11 and theres a girl in year 9 who I Fancy. I know she likes me as well but the thing is I've had relationships in the past, which have involved foreplay. I'm wondering whether it would be right dating her?...

I like them both.. Who do I choose?!!

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2 May 2009 (F) - Okay so I am caught between guys there's this guy I really like but he lives five hours away from me and we were involved but then there's a guy who lives five minutes away and we go to school together and we are both interested in each other. I ...

Is he lying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend came home the other night so drunk he couldn't stand on his own. he was spitting on the floor thinking he was outside. he told me he was out with another woman, wouldn't let me near him because he said he didn't shower and still had ...

He had sex with me and I haven't heard anything from him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hello. I have been seeing a guy for three months. He is 38, divorced with four children (they don't live with him)I am 35 no kids. I like him a lot, he told me that he really liked me and said he wanted to take things slow (despite the fact that he ...

I can't move on as I still love my ex gf! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I'm going to be honest with myself by saying this, I still love my ex and I want her back. She broke up with me saying she didn't have time for a relationship what with work, having 2 horses to look after and train plus being a scout leader. ...

He's too old and my Mom says 'don't date him'...how do I get over him?

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2 May 2009 (F) - i had a crush but he is too old for me (5 years older) so we thought (he loved me too) it was a good idea not to date until i was much older. my mum said it would be a good idea not to see him at all. i can understand why and im not angry at her at ...

It's driving me crazy..all these worries, no that I am not dating!

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2 May 2009 (F) - Hi! So fed up of everything atm. As i said previously, i broke up with my boyf of almost 6 years five months ago and just felt really crappy for about 4 months. I miss the relationship but wouldn't want to go back to my ex boyf, who's moved on ...

Scared to have sex with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - i really love my boyfriend.. he wants to have sex.. but i' m scared... even with protection... but i dont want to say that i am scared or that i dont want to do it .. because i am ready to do anything for him.. I dont know what to do right now....

I do whatever he wants me too but it makes me feel cheap and easy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Okay so I meet this guy about 6 months back and after 3 or so weeks he got me invited to a party and we hooked up. Since then we have been seeing each other in secret 1 or 2 times a week at various places in a friends with benefits agreement, but ...

I was raped 9 years ago and feel guilt

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2 May 2009 (F) - help me please, i was raped 9 years ago....i kind of forgot everything that happened but now i'm about to get married and i'm planing to tell the guy because i feel so guilt,.... i tried before couldn't tell him... but i feel i should tell him... ...

How can I show him that I'm serious this time?

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2 May 2009 (F) - So, I've started seeing a new guy this week after I broke up with my ex of 3 years. I met up with him on Monday night and we just chilled at his house. I got home and he text me saying he nearly went in for a cheeky kiss as i was leaving. So we met ...

Feelings for me? Or am I seeing things?

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2 May 2009 (F) - ok so i really like this lad, i dont c him very often we coach gymnastics together once a week n he does little things like puts his hat on me n does little nudges n the tipical pick on me like jokingly im not too sure how to take it like whether he ...

I have feelings for her; but she's engaged!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - Hi. about 6 months back I met a girl in uni that was doing some of the same courses as me, I got chatting to her and walked her to her bus stop before going home. I never saw her again for a few months. The next semester it turned out that ...

I want to make a move..gain back what we had

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2 May 2009 (M) - i am an average kid (junior in high school), not too popular but not a loser.. i am just friendly with everyone in my school weather they are popular or losers. this year i met this girl who kinda seemed like one of those stereotypical popular ...

Take your shoes off! Thanks!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Call me PETTY, but i am a woman of PRINCIPLE. I recently put a sign on my front door saying, take your shoes off, thanks!! I was getting so angry with everyone bringing mud and grass in to the house and getting it all over my laminate floors ...

I broke up with him because I thought he was gay... but he wasn't!

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2 May 2009 (F) - About a month ago I broke up with my boyfriend cuz I thought he was gay but then i found out that he wasent what should i do cuz as soon as i dumped him i got a NEW boyfriend and now he doesnt really talk to me, in fact i think he hates me, what ...

How can I forgive and forget with these images in my head?

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2 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. She told me she was a virgin and wanted to stay a virgin till she gets married. I agreed, because I am a virgin too. Everything was going okay. Until last month, she said that she can't lie to me ...

Late period... Advice needed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - This month I'm late with my period by about 10 days [or 4] somtimes it depends when I get it. Some months i've gotten it the 22nd or so, while others when the month is about to end but this time it hasnt come yet. Pregnancy is somewhat out of the ...

I understand his frustration but it's making me feel so down that I cannot function properly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hello Aunt's and Uncles, I have posted on this wonderful site before and hope I can call on people's advice and opinions again to help me with something that has been bothering me. Well, I will try to make this short. Earlier this year I lost my c...

These trips to the supermarket are getting more frequent!!!

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2 May 2009 (F) - These past few days, my fiance seems different. He's been going out to the supermarket, the one we always use, more than usual. And I know for a fact he HATES going there. I wasn't feeling well so I haven't been with him, when I usually do go. ...

How can I tell my dad I've slept with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hi, So i live with my dad and step mom. My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months and we have had sex. (both our 1st times). I want to tell my dad because i tell him everything, but im the only child so he's sometimes overbearing. But my ...

I can't live with him... but I can't live without him either.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for about six months now and at the current moment it's a constant struggle. It's long distance and i only see him at weekends yet that at the beginning was totally fine as i am at Uni during the week and he works etc ...

Am I?

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2 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and me had unprotected sex. About three days after i thought i had gotten my period(but it was too early for that to start) My periods usually last around a week, this one lasted about four days... emplantation bleeding or period? Im ...

Why would he act so differently from real life and on msn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I would like to ask about a guy's mind. Why would a guy behave so differently on msn from real life? For example, on msn, when you tell him that you are struggling on something or tell him you are sad..., he would somewhat comfort you. But...

Why did he do this if he likes me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hello About the boy I told you that I thought he fancied me the signs he gave me my brothers friend Well my brother and his girlfriend told him and I came outside and he told me in my face sorry but nah he don’t fancy me I said to him that’s co...

Understanding a dream?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - In simple terms, I want to know what my dream means. The people in the dream were me and the 4 guys that I have fancied since I have been going to secondary school. I have been out with 2 of these 4 guys, 1 of them I am going out with now, but ou...

Should I tell the new girl that I'm not quite over my ex?

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2 May 2009 (M) - I'm in a new relationship with a female at college. not too long ago i broke up with someone. i'm not completely 100% over my ex however i havent said anything to this new girl. should i mention her? or is that a bad idea? or is the fact that im ...

How can I get my relationship back on track?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Lately, me and my boyfriend of seven months have been arguing a hell of a lot. He's usually very sweet and caring, and considerate of my feelings. As of recently, however, he's been thinking of himself more than me. He'll do something even if he ...

Now that we're broken up I miss her love and care a lot...

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2 May 2009 (M) - I didnt love my girlfriend and i broke up.... I am sick of missing her now... after we broke up we decided to stay as friends but she seeked closure in that too so i decided to break all contacts and just ignored her. She used to be so concerned ...

Can men just use people to write to for company?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Guys who have been away from loved ones - either in prison or the forces:- When men write letters to their loved ones (for example girlfriends or female friends) - do they show their true feelings or are they just wanting company from pen friends? ...

I feel really self conscious when I'm on top as everything jiggles about!

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2 May 2009 (F) - I feel really self conscious when me and my bf have sex when I'm on top. I'm 5 feet even and about 130 pounds. I'm not fat, just curvy. I feel like when I'm on top he's sees everything moving, and finds it unattractive so I try not to make eye ...

What to do when you can't do no more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfreind have been together for almost 4 years, she was 5 months pregnant with our daughter when we met, she's 3 and we have a son, he is legally mines. Me and my gf fight a lot, I usually end up the only one trying to talk it out but ...

Is he completely over me?

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2 May 2009 (F) - please read the whole thing and help me outttt a few months ago i liked this guy he said we should hang out i asked him if he meant by asking me out he never wrote back.then on new years i sent him happy new years and he asked me to sent him my p...

How do I know or find out if my friend still likes me like he did a year ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Soo heres the thing. At least a year and a hald ago, my best friend asked me out. At the time i couldnt date, so i had to say no, and he understands that. Now that i can date, i would reallly really really! love to be his girlfriend...but i dont ...

He was flirting with another girl, what should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Ok I don't understand my crush at school, i'm pretty sure he likes me, but then today while he knows that he was in my sight he was flirting with the girl that he was sitting with..they were kind of play fighting, I can only think he was trying to ...

Does he not want me at his place?

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2 May 2009 (F) - This guy that I was seeing a few months back recently contacted me...we kind of just stopped talking. Out of the blue he gets in touch with me last week, and he's asking if I want to meet up with him sometime to hang out. Before when we were seeing ...

I easily obsess over a girl when I have feelings for her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - everytime i like a girl, i obsess... big time! i'm 20 years of age + i cant get this 14 year old girl outta my head! it's crazy!! i've never met her + probably never will because we live in different countries but i do know what she looks like. it's ...

How can I get past the hurt... how can I trust him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I broke up with my partner. In that time he had two other women. (seperately) anyway recently we have been talking a lot and the other nite he rang and asked if he could come over. We had a good talk and he told me that he wants to be with me. ...

How do you know your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - How do you know your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore?...

Is flirting one step away from cheating???

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2 May 2009 (F) - I went on my boyfriends computer and i was going to check my Myspace. But he was already logged on and it said he had 9 Messeges. I was curious so i clicked. (I didnt find 9 new messeges) But i did find a conversation he was having with some girl T...

My boyfriend's friend doesn't like me... how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - we've been 7 months with my boyfriend.. and it's the first time i can feel that one of his church mates was not just into me. I mean, doesn't like me for him. there's this one time when i checked on my boyfriend's friendster account and read one ...