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*quishysammiie
writes:ok so i am 18 and i have 2 kids, and am now with the guy i had a crush on for 8 years. hes almost everything ive ever wanted sweet, smart,fun but he cheated on me when he was drunk, and i forgave him, except he still continues to drink after many many times of telling me that he quit. he says he loves me and that he doesnt ever want me to leave him, and i dont know what to do, i want to move out and have a life, but at the same time im afraid that if we (me and my boyfreind) move out that hes going to drink and screw everything up and im so tired of dealing with things like this liars, cheaters, drunks. i just recently went through a similar situation with my ex, where he would lie drink and cheat but i have so much feelings for the guy im with that i dont know what to do about it.. can someone please help me?
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reader, squishysammiie +, writes (27 May 2009):
squishysammiie is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok so im not queit sure how to tell people thnx for giving me advice so i will do it on here...anyways thnk yu to everyone that has answered my questions:) much appreciated always squishy sammiie
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): If he drinks now, he probably will keep on drinking. If he cheats when he drinks, he will probably keep on cheating, too. Why are you wasting your time with this boy? Leave him, and don't get seriously involved with another guy until you know that he has self respect, and respect for you. Simple as that.
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reader, mimisoph3  +, writes (7 May 2009):
 if ur tired of his drinking just talk to him tell him that u forgave him ones but u dont think u will this time,..tell him its his last chance to make it right in the relationship if u feel that he wont stop then tell him to chose its either the alcohol or u..and i think his probably trying to hid something if his drinking alot maybe some emotion is hidden and his trying to drink it in..just talk to him and tell him that u feel like u cant do it all alone u need him and u know he needs u..
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