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Dating: Help and advice

Want someone else but in a long term relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a relationship proble. Ok, so I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. Our relationship has been quite stagnant for a while. About year ago, he told me he wanted to have a break because he didn't even really expect us to be ...

I'm always looking for faults!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - hi, i think there is something wrong with me. Whenever I meet girls or when a girl is interested in me I always find, or maybe look for faults with them. its doing my head in because i wouldnt mind getting into a relationship, but wen ever i s...

Is it wrong to think that love is the only thing that makes life worth living?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - After having been alive for 29 years and having been in a few ended relationships, is it foolish and wrong of me to still think and feel that love is the only thing that makes life truly worth living? I was single for more than 5 years between my...

I'm in love with a taken woman but can't bare to walk away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - Hey im in a very confusing situation im in a sort of relationship with a girl at work for about 5 months but she has a bf n he knows that we like each other and have had sex and he doesnt mind it infact he incourages it n i have to admit i love her ...

Party, boys and Fear

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5454 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Please help me! So, I have liked this boy for over a year and half. About 6th months ago I admitted it... and now we have become closer and relli good friends. My friend said that he has changed around me recently. So we were all on the bus... an...

One night stand now I'm afraid he's going to think I do that all the time!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - im just out of 41/2 yr relationship i have 2 kids,we knew a yr ago it was over but i thought he would change he didnt so i finally got the courage to ask him to leave.it was hard, 4mths later im moving on.i'v liked a friend of mine for a while now,i ...

I don't want to lose a friend or hurt my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - hi i hope someone can help or advise. a guy i work with has recently been flirting and making comments that imply he likes me. last week i was at work at the start of my night shift. during the day i had been upset by something my boyfriend had ...

Former teacher student relationship possible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - This is about my teacher.. I need help :( I am 16, 17 in September and I have finished school and I am halfway through my GCSE's. I had a few issues with one of my ex-teachers; as I am not coming back to my old school next year, she is n...

Want to be with my guy but he doesn't understand how torn I am about my dog

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I am torn up about my situation. My boyfriend of 3 years who I love has emigrated (12 months now) and I am planning to follow but I have a major hurdle - my dog. He is 6 years old and of course as all dog-lovers will know they are like children to ...

Accidently hit ny girlfriend in the face, what can I do to make up for that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - Hey. My alarm didn't go off, and i missed my girlfriend. She waited for me for a long time... not something that was fun for her. after that, I accidentally hit her in the face... ouch... oops... I want to make up for it somehow, but I'm kind of ...

Ladies, do you prefer pubic hair on your guys or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - hey, I've been seeing a girl for about a month now, we've decided to move things on a bit and starting to do sexual stuff. Do girls prefer a guy with a bit of hair or not? I've not done anything before and do not want to be embarrised by my ...

What do I do when all my boyfriend wants to do is to have sex with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - What do I do when all my boyfriend wants to do is to have sex with me?...

He's moody and quiet at times, and doesn't show any affection around our friends, what can I do to help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I have been going out with a guy for almost three months now and everything was going great we fight a little but every relationship has some bumpy roads in it. But we were together with some friends and it was akward. We didn't hold hands or even ...

How do I tell her I need more without sounding like a jerk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - I have a much higher sex drive than my bf and I struggle all the time with our level of intimacy. I know I should talk to him about it but I am worried it will make him unenthusiastic as he is making more of an effort, plus he has been a but ...

Hurt,confused, angry, sad & lonely all because of him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and this guy and I have been going together off and on for 3years. Last year for my b-day he gave me a ring and told me it was b/c he really loved me and cared for me and wanted me to kno that we were in a serious ...

Mom won't let me go to Greece to be with my b/f!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 months is Greek, but study's over here in the city i live in for most of the year. I see him every day, and although we haven't been together for a very long time, as we have spent so much time togther we have quickly fallen in ...

Guys: What makes you want to commit to a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - What exactly makes a guy want to commit to a girl? i have this guy friend (he fancies me..I fancy him too) but we have been on and off without a year and hes played all these mind games and generally the whole situations soo messed up p...

Do I have some sort of mental block on kissing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and I'm happy. We have so much in common and were friends for about a year before we started going out. We've kissed abit but never really in private and only for about 10 seconds. I usually ...

I think I'm turning into some kind of an idiot!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Please help, I think I am turning into some sort of idiot. I have been dating a guy for over four weeks now, and we have been on three wonderful dates. But its been a week since our last one. we talk/text email every day. We are both shy, and...

I keep forgetting to get my ID so that I can sign up to get on the public dole rather than get a job, and my boyfriend is really bugging me about it. He wants me to start getting welfare as soon as possible and doesn't believe that I just forgot to g

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says he needs me, cares about me and loves me. We were getting on just fine until about a week ago and now hes suddenly turned into an arsehole. He asked me to move in after the first time we met and i accepted, we both really liked ...

I want to make love to my boyfriend, but it is wrong in my culture

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I am so confused. I'm 18 years old girl i've got a 24 year old boyfriend he's muslim i'm sikh. we've only been dating for a month but knew eachother 2 months before and we have even had our little up and downs but i love him so much and vice ve...

I spent a lot on my boyfriends birthday presents which I know will make him unconfortable, but I really want to treat him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Ok so its my boyfriends birthday next month and the week after we will have been together for a year. Also I have recently got a bonus at work (a lot more than I expected) and so really want to get him something nice. I love shopping and so have got ...

Why does she want to keep our relationship secret?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - I now have a girlfriend and she loves me,she introduced me to her mother but says we should keep it low for now,that she does nt want people to know now. What should i do and what does she mean....

Should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my bf for five years. We love each other deeply, but I'm just not sure if it is right. After being on and off for a few months we finally decided to break it off, but still keep in touch. We recently did the friends with ben...

I wonder..does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I know it sounds like the most obvious question in the world but how can you tell if someone really likes you? A woman at work and I have become close very quickly, only in the last few days and sms each other and hang out consantly now. She is very ...

My boyfriend is angry, because I hung out for 30 minutes with old friend, what can I do to help him get over this nonsense?

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25 May 2009 (F) - ok here is the deal...im 18 years old and I've been dating this guy on and off for almost 3 years. we r in a long distance relationship and we love each other so much. the problem is I was at a reception after a concert and I saw this guy I had a ...

First date since e-mailing only situation, what should I wear, is it ok to cuddle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - In two weeks I will be meeting my boyfriend at his house what should I wear. It is our first date is it okay for us to cuddle since we have only been talking to each other thru email for four days now? ...

Is this really love or a crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - ok well i dont want to brag but i am dating this amazing girl i love everything about her. i think i am in love with her we have been dating for almost 3weeks and, idk i mean i cant describe the feeling i get when i am with her so is it really love ...

He is being very distant and I am feeling ignored, what can I do to stop this rude treatment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - My dilemma is with my bf of 5mths. At first, he was the running after me, so i got to know him and liked him mutually back. He's an awesome guy, and things are usually great between us. We both have history of being in relationships in which both of ...

Should I be with him, when he hides from his girlfriend with me and makes out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I think I have an issue. I am in love with a guy that already has a grilfriend. We were dating for a while but he dumped me. We still like each other- it's obvious. We have kinda become friends with benefits we dont have sex we just make out. Last ...

An old flame. Should I pursue it or let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I have recently separated from my husband of 6 years, and have a 2 year old. Recently I reconnected with a guy that I had a casual relationship with for quite a while before I met my husband (basically a hook up when you are at the bar type of ...

Always the lover - not the girlfriend. What AM I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Hi, So I commonly start dating people and fall for them. And they don't want to be my boyfriend, but instead my lover. In the recent instances of this, it is because they don't feel as strong a connection with me as they have previously felt ...

Drama Queen! I'm sick of it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - i am with a girl. we planned a trip to hawaii but she cancelled because she will have her period then. we were supposed to go to a music festival yesterday but she canceled because i would not apologize to her for not opening a door for her all...

What does a girl have to do to become COMPLETELY desired by her man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I believe in some cases that the help provided here has shaped and even changed the outcome of some peoples lives. I desperatly need a little coaching or direction myself and would sincerely be gratfeul for any advice. What does a girlfriend hav...

He said we should keep things "public" and its too soon for fun

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been dating a great guy for a couple of weeks now. Enjoyed just really being together, he didn't even kiss me until our 3rd date, and it was well worth the wait! On our 4th date, dinner at my place, we kissed a lot and were a little i...

Why isn't he talking to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - My guy friend has been not talking to me and I've stopped texting him because he hasn't been texting me. He never talks to me anymore! I don't know what happened, he says were still friends. he is usually online all the time and he hasn't been ...