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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid posters, I will break this down so it's not all long and drawn out. In the past all my ex's I have not cared for as much as my new boy friend. I could go a few days without seeing them and hardly even talking to them. But my new boyfriend I really care about. I see hime almost 6 days a week. Sometimes it's only for 2 hours others it's almost 8.. We have been together almost 2 months and I love seeing him and dont ever get tired of him. Tonight I am off work and he isn't working and it's the first time I wont spend time with him. My friend who I have not seen in almost 4 months and I are goin out tonight, and I feel like S**t because I could be spending time with my boyfriend.. I do know it's good to have some tome apart, but I feel horrible. Can you please help me understand it's ok to spend time with another person besides my boyfriend...
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (8 May 2009):
 try calming urself down a bit..i get ur addicted but if he knew he would probably get a little scared..i get u lovee spending time wit him but remember u guys are not an old married couple u have to have some time wit ur girls u cant be wit him 24/7 as much as u want to.all guys want some kind of space..if u spend alloott of time wit him he might get tired and bored wit u always by his side..and of course if u let him breath then his gonna miss u more..just be relaxedd.think about wat he makes u soo addicted to him then think about the turn offs.but u feel like uuu nnneeedddd to see him then go right ahead and give him a call :D
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