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Archived questions from: 10 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Does he know what he really wants .. me or her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - hey every1 ..my ex broke up with me 7 months ago during the duration of the breakup weve slept togther on a few occasions... to him it was a friends with benifits situation but to me it always felt like more ..im still madly in love with him and ...

Is he just playing with me? I'm so confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - i dont know what i should do because one day he told me to wait for him and see what happens ...then the next day we on a fieldtrip and he was talking to some other girls..it seems like he know how to play with my heart he does things on purpose to ...

He still wants to be FWB

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - Hey DearCupids, I've got a bit of an issue on my hands and need help. me and my boyfriend of 10 months have recently split, out of all the days he ended it on our 10 month anniversary. The main cause of the break up was due to distance, with m...

My time is running out as an era is ending. HELP !!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

10 May 2009 (M) - Hi. Please help me as I'm running out of time. Please skip to the end for the problem but it's easyer to understand Reading the full thing. I've known my friend who is a girl for about 5 years now, we know each other so well we even say "lov...

Am I stressing over nothing? He's not texting me back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - hey all i met a guy a week ago he is 10 years younger then me but we hit it off from the start, since we met we have seen each other 3 times. he still lives with his x in a shared house until the end of august. he has been texing me pretty ...

Ever felt like you weren't good enough to be with your partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - Has anyone else ever felt like they weren't good enought to be with their partner? Sometimes when I am with him I feel like he is so far beyond the best person imaginable and I feel so inferior just being in his presence. He isn't doing this on ...

She obviously likes me but is throwing mixed feelings around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

10 May 2009 (M) - This is a long one, bare with me....So... I've worked with this girl for 3 years, we work in different departments so haven't gotten many chances to talk in detail, mostly just passing. One day down in the breakroom i get her number, text her later, ...

Head lice could stop us from being intimate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - I'm 19. I have headlice. It's humiliating. I spend a lot of time in college so I think I caught them there. But ... I can't get rid of them! This weekend, I spent from about 12am-2am dowsing my hair in Full Marks Solution, combing my hair so vigor...

Is this a sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - hi, i'm 15 and i have never been kissed or had a proper boyfriends(well i have only had one none proper boyfriend)and people who are as i would say uglyer than me had all had boyfriends is there some thing wrong with me? i do fancie this guy ...

Do I need to be less clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend isnt with me i miss him like crazy! I mean i just think bout him all the time. Even when im with my friends i just want to be with him! I know he loves me and i love him. Hes just more independent person than me. He likes times ...

How do guys show that they fancy gals?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - Hi - I recently asked a question about how to slip hints to the guy I like without it being outright flirting...if anyone has anymore ideas please do tell! But when I saw this guy last (we see each other at a sports club) a few times after I pl...

French kissing..how to react

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - hi i am 13 and i have been going out with this boy for about 3 months and we really want to kiss he said he will kiss me the next time he gets me alone but i know boys put their tongue in your mouth and i don't know what to do or how to react if he ...

How can I make my text messages more flirty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for quite some time. I don't text him often as im usually busy so I've decided from now on id like to make the txts I do send him, more flirtacious. How can I turn a simple "hey how are you?" txt for example I...

Why don't guys go out with girls with low self-esteem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - why don,t shallow good looking guys like fat girls why are we not good enough to be seen with .i feel so inferior that i won,t ever get a boyfriend becasue my weight and lack of social skills.good looking guys always have girlfriends how is this ...

How can I get this young guy out of my head and concentrate on the older guy who gives me everything I want and more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - Hi,can any one help me.Early last year i came out of a 10 yr relationship which i have a six yr old daughter from.The last few yrs my ex was quite abusive,so i had to bind my time to get out of.I have a good relationship with my ex now,and he is ...

She e-mails me loads but doesn't want others to see me talking with her in person. Does she fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

10 May 2009 (M) - Hi. I'll be brutally honest with you. I'm thinking about having an affair. I know I shouldn't and I guess I could put the brakes on whilst I still have the composure. Here's the story. I'm not married, have two children but my partner in recent ...

I'm her perfect guy, except for the distance between us...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

10 May 2009 (M) - There's a girl I'm absolutely crazy about and this isn't an infatuation thing. I've been absolutely crazy for her for over a year. When I first felt that way, I told her straight up. She was hesitant mainly because she had already been see...

Used by girls and no friend's to speak of, how do I rebuild my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

10 May 2009 (M) - right.. erm.. im 22 years old and basically i have had very bad luck with girls from the start... one girl whom i use to go out with went off with my best mate and cos we were in the same class i had to put up with seein them on a day to day basis.. ...

I told him I was older, and now I'm falling for him. How to tell him the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 and have been going to a local bar for the past year. I met this cool guy who I told I was 24, he started talking online alot then dating . He is 34. He has told me he loved me and I"m beginning to fal hard for him. I dont want to lie to ...

How do I stop being scared that he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - There is this guy that I think might like me. I really like him too. I've never had a boyfriend. I've never had a guy act the way he does around me. It's to the point where I'm scared that he likes me. It's so bad that I've been trying to make it ...

Developing deep feelings and would like to make things exlusive with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - I met a guy on a dating site. We emailed for a month and now have been dating for 2 months. He confessed a couple weeks back that he was seeing multiple women but then it was just me and one other person but "doesn't really talk to her anymore". I ...

His mom is a big thorn in the side of our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - Ok I am engaged and we r already planning the wedding but I have one problem....HIS MOTHER! We live together and have 3 kids witch she treats bad. She has told other family members that she don't think I love him like his ex from 5 years ago did! He ...

He wants to have sex to see what I'm like

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - Men help me out. I have been pursued by a man whom I love to be with. We went out several times and are compatible and have great communication: honest, open, and trusting. We even discuss disagreements with respect for the other's feelings and ...

Why do girls make things so complicated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

10 May 2009 (M) - ok so there i was sittin in the library revising. opposite me was a girl who was also doing some work. i asked her "i kno ur busy but would u like to grab a bite quickly?" she said no but is goin for a smoke later and i could come with if i do ...

Found out he has a child, not even divorced yet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - i am in a 'serious' relationship with my boyfriend since august 2008, however, i have never invited to his home(he lives 6 hours away). i asked to visit just after easter, however, got a shocking confession from him instead--he is divorced, has a ...

I have fallen for a gay boy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - I'm 16, and recently i've begun to really like a a guy in my school, i knew he was interested and i think he knew i was intertested too. anyway we swapped numbers and it wasn't long until he admitted he was gay, i was devastated! but he told that ...