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Archived questions from: 15 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Can I date my best friends ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I’m in love with my best friends ex boyfriend, they broke up 6 weeks ago after a 22 month long relationship, and can I date him or not????? I have been her friend for 19 months since we started high school together. She was dating him since Gr.9. ...

Stressed out for dumb reasons

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15 May 2009 (F) - i was with this guy the other night who i have had a thing sort of going on with for awhile. i really like him. but he is pretty laidback, almost too much to where i'm afraid of upsetting him or pushing him away, and we're taking things slow but...

How do I find her G spot?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - hi, Im a fifteen (soon sixteen) years old guy with a serious girlfirend. We have had sex since... I dont know when... earlier than last summer at least. well, enough about me, I came here for a question. By GF and I have sex quite often and... w...

He's going through a hard time right now, how can I be his friend?

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15 May 2009 (F) - hey guys . i love my boyfriend and i would and do go out of my way for him , he has been feeling a little -off- lately , not doing that great at college , job going nowhere and he lives alone so i guess he is lonely sometimes, i dont what to do but ...

If he doesn't love me now will he ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Should I stay or go? I have been in a relationship with my partner for nearly two years. To begin with our relationship was great he really showed he cared and took the time out always made me happy... Now things have changed, he is dista...

Best friend's girlfriend is evil

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

15 May 2009 (?) - Im very confused over my best friend. This boy, I'll call him Allyn, and I have been very close friends for 6 years. We had a serious relationship that lasted for about a year and a half. We broke up about 10 months ago. He's been dating this girl ...

I need help communicating with a girl I want to take out, what do I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - where can i take a girl out!! we've only been out once together and that was just at a party and we went for a few drinks n that together. what should i say if i ring her up? how can i ask her to go out? why am i not ringing her, am i scared incase ...

Am I just meeting the wrong guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Ok, here is a question, I am 25 and have never had a boyfriend (not by lack of trying), everytime I go out with work or friends, guys hit on me but never want anything more, for some reason guys just wont date me and I don't understand why, I have ...

She is going through changes, and I am confused, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I'm not really sure where too begin. Shelly and I met over a year ago. She was in another relationship but still there was some crazy deep attraction going on between us even we can't explain. Her relationship ended around oct. of 08`. Feb 20th 2009 ...

In love with a guy but he only wants me for "fun"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I don't now what to do I feel like I am in a catch 22 situation. I have fallen for this guy in a big way, he is gorgeous and when we are talking he seems really into me, but he doesn't always talk just when he feels like it and it's killing me ...

I think he wants me to make the first move and I don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - i go out with the boy i really like and he really likes me too, we don't speak that much but i think he's wants me to make the first move but i don't know how to start the conversation. what subjects should i speak about? we're not in any of each ...

Three weeks and no contact and now he wants to spend all his time with me?

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15 May 2009 (F) - Hi, Am dating this guy for 3months. We spend almost all weekends together but recently he went for a holiday in africa for three weeks and i didnt her anything from him. He is back now and he wants to spend all his weekends with me. I am very ...

She still has pictures of her ex's on her PC...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I have been seeing a new girl for the past 2 months or so. We get on great, shes loveable, gorgeous, smart, everything I want her to be however, there is something that concerns me. She still has pictures of her and her exes (like 4 guys) ...

I can't stop thinking about my stalker!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - This man has been harassing me for years! We had a brief relationship 3 years ago, it was very intense but it ended quickly. He cheated on me with a hooker! We were sort of on a break though, and I was cheating on him too, though I don't think he ...

Why don't I ever have long relationships???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Hey! Every relationship i have never lasts more than a month and a half..( thats really lucky) and i have been in relationships in the past 8 months and all ove thought about is my ex now were back togeher nearly for a month i dont see any point in...

Help which guy do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - hii okay well basically im in a sticky situation i got 3 boys who like me ( and admitted including my bf which btw no one knows about ... ) and 2 other boys in my class who are also my friends ... one of em is one of my best friends and other is...

Is it realistic to expect a guy in his 20's to be content with taking things slow?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I've been reading lots of questions and answers on here and there seems to be a general consensus that if a guy truly likes you as a person and is interested in pursuing a relationship with you he will wait for sex/intimacy, won't pressure you and ...

He isn't there for me when I need him but I'm always there for him... what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Please Help Me! I broke up with my bf two weeks ago after he asked me for money and said he wouldnt talk to me. My mother passed away a few days later. I didnt contact him to tell him because he has never been there when I needed him only when he ...

Why did he lie over something so dumb?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Ok two months ago my daughters 3rd birthday to be exact! I was throwing her party and he daddy didn't show up he was 2 hours late!(we are together! He told me when he phoned from his grandmas that his truck broke down after taking a wrong turn and ...

Problems in our relationship and need your help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together exclusively for 6 months this week. We have been seeing each other for about 9 though. About a month and a half into our relationship, I had sex with an old friend of mine; I cheated on him. My boyfrien...

I want to get out and live!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Ever since I was about 14 I have always been in serious relationships! when I was 15 I got into a relationship that lasted 3 years and I got engaged! I finaly left him due to problems that had been going on for a while and had, had enough of it! but ...

Boring relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - I am in a relationship with a girl that is really boring and talks a lot about herself, she likes spamming me with text messages during school. post your comments on what to do please...

I feel like I'm living in a nightmare.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Hi everyone just looking for a bit of reassurance again. Me and my boyfriend of 5 years have been apart for 6 months now, but I'm not handling it well at all. It was my choice to end it, and now I feel like I'm being punished. I'm on ...

Can someone explain what she means?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Hello, Ive been with my girl for a month now, not long I know but its going really well which is great :) On several occasions shes told me she loves me, all well and good but it does seem too soon to say that. Anyhow, she called me last night...

He wants to break up because of the age difference but it doesn't matter to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Please help, I have just split up with my boyfriend of 8 years. He is 20 years older than me (I am 30 he is 50) and he says he has just woken up to the fact that he is so much older than me. He feels he has to let me go so I can go off and marry ...

The first kiss...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - today im going to kiss my boyfriend for the first time and im so nervous. I know that the first kiss does determine the relationship but why must we be so nervous after all is just a kiss. what if the kiss is not what i expected it to be. should i ...

He betrayed my trust and lied to me about something so stupid it doesn't make sense!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - okay... well this guy and I were best friends for almost 6 years, we started dating a year ago. Since then we have been discussing marriage. well we have been doing the long distance thing since christmas and lately I have felt things are different ...

Are we a joke? Should we end it once and for all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Hey all Ok I hve been with my boyfriend for the past three years, we have been tru a hell of a lot together but the problem is we cant seem to really make a go off things!! We really love each other and when its good its brilliant but when thing...

I don't know how to act around women but my friends do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - I don't know how to act around women. When I go to a club, I see my friends casually walk past girls in clubs, rub up against them/touch them up a little and then carry on walking as if nothing happened. Other times it'll happen when they're ...

When he's in a bad mood he ignores me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - When my bf is in a bad mood, he ignores me. He wont tell me about his problems or what really happened. This really upsets me because I feel like I must be a bad gf because he wont let me be there for him. I want to support him, but I dont ...

I hate waiting and am wondering if he's doing the 3 day rule?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I had a date on Tuesday and we got on really well... at the end of the date we kissed and had some heavy petting. I texted him (know I prob shouldn't have next day, saying 'you are lovely, and we were very naughty'. He texted back saying 'so ...

In love with my first cousin, should I pursue it or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Im deeply inlove with my 16 yr. old first cousin. I had my first kiss from him, i dont know if he loves me too. I sometimes caught him staring at me, what does that mean? And I dont know why did he kissed me that time? I loved him since I was 6-7 ...

Am I reading the signs right re this guy who shows interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - This guy that I work with started flirting with me out of the blue one day. We have a very strong physical attraction. But he told me from start he doesn't want a relationship right now. But, lately he has given me gifts and we have been hanging out ...

I am in an open relationship, should I lay my cards on the table with this other woman or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Hi. There's this woman at work who loves e-mailing and instant messaging me for long periods at a time about all sorts of subjects. She is single and on the look out for a man. I have a partner but she knows I am disgruntled and have shown a desire ...

Has he grown out of being a slut?

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15 May 2009 (F) - I am dating this super wonderful guy and he asked me to move across the country with him but he used to be like the biggest player ever and I don't know how to tell if he is really outgrown it. He just turned 18, he is probably the hottest guy to e...

Do you think they think I'm creepy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Hi guys, so i have a playstation 3 and on my ps3 i have a 'friends' list. i currently have a few girls on this 'friends' list and my problem is that they ignore me unless i text them and ask them how they are doing and things like that. it's alw...

If a person never experienced true heartache can they know what true love is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - If a person never experienced true heartache, like a broken heart, can they know what true love is? To me, they have nothing to compare it to, so in my eyes one cant possibily know what love is until they experience how much hurt love can bring ...

This guy wouldn't give someone like me the time of day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Ok so there is this boy I like and he has a girlfriend, but she is one of my best friends. I didn't realize I had feelings for him for quite some time, and he is really cute but i'm not sure if he even likes me as a friend...but...idk! He is sooo ...

I am happy because he is happy but I cant forget him! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Help! During uni last year I met a guy studying here from overseas, Abdhul. I initially talked to him a little bit and didn't think much of it, but as i got to know him better, i fell deeply in love with him. We got along really well, and although...

Now that he's no longer my teacher should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I want to make this short because I have final exams to study for. In June of 2008, my high school closed down. I September I transfered to another school. I was in love with my history teacher, and to this day I still am. I plan on inviting him to ...

I can't be sure of what he's doing as we live so far apart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend, but we live far apart. I only see him on major holidays, like summer and christmas. We talk a lot on the phone and we don't have a lot of problems. The major problem is that we miss each other badly. I sometimes feel like he ...