New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244976 questions, 1084347 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in May, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (34), 2 (41), 3 (38), 4 (47), 5 (40), 6 (46), 7 (39), 8 (30), 9 (26), 10 (26),
11 (54), 12 (50), 13 (28), 14 (35), 15 (41), 16 (34), 17 (33), 18 (42), 19 (42), 20 (54),
21 (47), 22 (34), 23 (24), 24 (27), 25 (36), 26 (34), 27 (54), 28 (46), 29 (27), 30 (18),
31 (39),

Archived questions from: 5 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

(More questions from May, 2009)

Dating: Help and advice

I'm just very confused what this girl actually wants.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - I need some help with my relationship. I'm just very confused what this girl actually wants. I was in a 9 month relationship with this girl, and things were always pretty good. Recently though we haven't been seeing each other as much, and the ...

Although I'm dating I always have to call and text to see him. Is he just not that into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - So my problem is a pretty minor one, but that's what this site's for, right? Phew. Ok. Basically, I am in a relationship with a guy I positively ADORE. I mean, I am head over heels in LOVE. I think. What's getting me down is the fact that he nev...

His ex still has control over him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating someone for 16 months. Relationship is wonderful except that his "ex" still has her control over him. He does not agree with this and it is a constant argument for us. He's out of the marriage because she cheated, lied and ...

His mates girlfriends go out, but I don't get an invite! Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Does this seem right to u. My boyfriend gos out on lads nite out. But then i find that some of his mates girlfriends go too! I dont live in the same town but only 30 mins away! Hes a manager of a footie team and they r having a big allday drinking ...

Do guys date fat girls?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - would guys date fat girls. because i am short and fat and i just can,t get boyfriend they want thin,tall,cheeky girls not like me...

Is it legal for my boyfriend to take me on holiday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - After my GCSE my boyfriend said he would take me on holiday to his villa. My parents are fine with it as he is legally an adult and can take care of me. I'm just worried is it ileagal for him to take me away at 16? Sorry its a weird questio...

Am I bi or just hormonal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - I am 13 and i am wondering if im turning bi. i dont want to be but i get weak erections over boys sometimes but all the time and strong over girls. i look at girls as babes but look at boys as good mates. ive only had a little crusch on one boy but ...

My guy has been mooching off me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Hey I have a problem.. there's this guy I been with for eight years . When we first hooked up he an I both had a son from previous relation ships. Which I had been very supportive of he and his son had been living wit me an my three kids which two ...

Is this concern or am I paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - I am 29, and my fiance will turn 30 in a few weeks. We've been together for almost 4 years, but knew each other 10 years ago,we have been engaged for a year. When we met she was seperated (not yet divorced from husband number 2) We have planned ...

Does he fancy me or what he just looking out for me because I was drunk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I have liked this guy for over 7 months now and im really confused! He is acting like he fancys me (he gives me loadz of eye contact and always touches me)but he always says that he dont. We were both out on sunday night with a group of friends when ...

Do I give him a second chance or move on?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

5 May 2009 (F) - what do you do when you just let the love of your life walk out? i had chased him enough and it got the point when i wouldnt want to fight at all i would just cry and open the door. i got sick of him tell me we couldnt be because he doesnt have ...

Rebound issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Don't really know where to start... About 3 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up because of my parents. And I'm still not over him (obviously) but there's this guy and I kinda like him but I'm not sure. Am I just 'thinking' I like him to get ...

How can I get my Dad to chill out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - hi. So i need advise. Well after prom its tridation here to go to the shore after prom. I am going to my bf's prom. We haven been togther for a while now and he is my neighbor...so my parents know him well. Also my dad, who i live with, knows i am ...

How do I flirt, with out flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 years old and I really like this guy at the local sports club. I'm not entirely sure where I would stand on like a friendship scale. I mean we've known each other about two years and we get on well, but I haven't met his friends so I ...

I feel hurt and used by her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - Man I feel like such a pussy typing this up. But I dont want to ask any of my buddies. Two years ago I dated this girl for about a year and a half total. I broke up with her for a couple of reasons, mainly selfishness on my behalf, I wanted...

Should I walk away???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Thank you all for trying to help me with my dilemma. I am no child, he broke up with me about a month ago. He said some degrading things to me that are were not true. We were together for 3yrs and I accepted things that I would of normally walked ...

Escort girlfriend, true love, and sleepless nights. Help..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - I met a girl 10 months ago who is 2 years my junior at age 23. We hit it off and quickly our relationship developed. For the first two weeks I believed that she worked in a japanese restaurant, but it quickly became apparant she was in fact a ...

Ex Girlfriend dumped me three weeks ago, now she's sending me messages...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - Hi My Girlfriend and i were together for about 8 months and dumped me out of the blue three weeks ago, told me not to look for her anymore. yesterday she wants to chat on yahoo, to say hi and to ask me what I was up to, could it mean she's sort of ...

Is he really just friends with this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. I fully trusted him... he could go where ever he wanted, do whatever, and talk to whoever because I believed he would always be true to me. Then he began to mention a girl he had been ...

Did I blow my chance with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - i have known this guy for 10 years, i didn't see him for about 8 years tho but now im single and going out again i have started to see him out with his friends. about a week ago i was out with a friend an we went bak to a friends of his for some ...

Weight issues...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (?) - Hello, everybody, I know this question doesn't have a defined answer, but I was just looking for opinions: what is the ideal ratio of a guys' weight to a girls' weight in a relationship? Thanks...

Boyfriend's new female friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - BF and I have been going out 3 years and this year I've graduated and started working and he started another course in uni. He's always been very outgoing and had lots of friends, but mostly guys who I know quite well. But since starting his new ...

Any advice, does he really want it over or am I just not accepting it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I broke up with my partner 4 weeks ago and I just can't get him out of my head. I finished it but I tried to change my mind and he just said fu*k it we're done. I went away for the weekend packed all his stuff, he came to collect it when I wasn't ...

Single with a child: I'm depressed and wonder who would want me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - When will i be ok. Im single with a child. My ex left me. I am trying to move on but im so full of hurt and resentment. I have trust issues and baggage because of the way my previous relationship ended. I wonder who would want me. My self esteem ...

I feel way guilty...should I be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - So i have been dating this guy for a year now, (we'll call him todd) which has been total bliss, except for this past month we have had a lot fights, resulting in us breaking up. i love him and care for him dearly, although i fear our relationship ...

My best girl friend wants to date my best guy friend?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Ok so here's the deal, I've been best friends with this girl, Smokey*, since freshman year in high school, and we've been on and off only because she's had "some issues" to say the least, but never the less I consider her my only true girl friend. ...

How do I get him to hug me or do anything??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - i am almost 16 and me and my not offical boyfriend have been "talking" for ever and he hasn't done anything not even hug and i really dont know how to get him to at least hug me or something he tells me that i am great its not me. he doesnt like ...

Falling for my first cousin...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - welll couple years ago i start flirting with my first cousin..but now i just want to get over her because i think i'm falling in love with her.. she live next to me so you imagine how often i saw her and every time i saw her i just want to be with ...

I think I lost him and my whole world is crushed. Please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - it all started about 3 and a half months ago when me and my boyfriend of almost a year started getting mad with each other and fighting a lot. we were on and off for a while, constantly "taking a break" and then getting back together. until about a ...

My parents and my best friend all hate my gf! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - My parents and my best friend and some of my church hates my girlfriend. Her and I have been through alot and we dont wanna stop. You cant change how someone feels about someone else in their heart. I wont give up and I wont stop! I will do ...

He has mental issues and I want to dump him! Should I be scared?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has mental issues and the more we stay together the more controlling he is becoming towards me. When we started dating, he was so much fun and exciting and did everything possible (in a good way) to make me fall for him. As we got to ...

We're engaged so shouldn't I be his benefactor on his life insurance policy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - My fiance` has just recently turned in his papers for benefits at his semi-new job. One of those benefits was life insurance. He rarely deals with his folks and out of curiosity, I asked when the last time he even talked to them was. His response ...

Is he too busy or losing his feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I just started dating this guy. He is really sweet but gets me so frustrated some times because he is so opinionated, as so am I. He says he loves me and I love him so much. He makes me really happy, but the problem is we don't talk that much. He is ...

We really like each other, but if his gf finds out..she'll kick my butt! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - im in love with this guy who is completely amazing..and he likes me back...but hes dating this other girl...and he said that if he wasn't dating her he'd be dating me...but i really want 2 date him and we are really close and all...but if his gf ...

She doesn't have a very attractive body...will I get over that eventually?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - I recently started a relationship with a girl I get along very well with. She lives in a different city and she is considering moving to the city I live in. When we are together, I am attracted to her mind enough so that we have a decent love life. ...

This new guy is so special..but I don't feel like I deserve him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - So i've been in toxic relationships for the past 2 years. Horrible controlling relationships with too much abuse that i put up with. Now that's it's been like 3 months since my last one and i have a new boyfriend. He's a great guy we started off as ...

Alex isn't serious, so should I date this other guy I am intensely attracted to?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - So here's the problem... I've been recently sort of been seeing this guy Alex, he's in the same college as i am and we get along really well, but both him and i don't wish to persue anything serious or committed anytime soon. Summer is comin...

Doggy style hurts bad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - When me and my boyfriend have sex in every other position, but doggy style, it feels great. But as soon as we try it doggy style, it kills me and we end up having to switch positions. Is there somthing wrong with me?...

What will he be like when he gets out of jail? Should I wait or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years; since we were both nineteen. And he's been in jail for the last year for a crime he did not commit. In fact, it was a crime his best friend committed but he died because of it. I am...

I had a dream...where he got really mad at me! What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - okay so my situation is well i have a little crush on this guy who is named Pedro and well I sit by him in a class and we talk and stuff and he is very cool to talk to.Well today I had a dream that we were walking side by side and that I told him ...