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writes:i love my girlfriend very much.we even spended some nights together. i was her first boyfriend. she is a girl of 17yrs.. now she says that she cannot continue our relationship further. she says that she is cheating her parents... she says that she cares for me.. and if god wishes she will marry me if her parents allow her...but for now she cannot go on with same relationship.... plz answer me this question Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): Are you known to her parents? If not, the best you could hope for is for her to tell them all about you and introduce you to them. I'm guessing that when she marries it will be to a man of her parents' choice and she won't have any say in the matter, or at least she will not go against her parents' wishes.
If your parents are like hers and want to arrange a marriage for you, maybe there's some way of introducing both sets of parents to each other.
I don't think God will have much to do with who you eventually marry, but you're young yet and if this doesn't work out the way you'd like, all you can do is hope that your parents eventually find you a wife that you are immediately attracted to and who you can fall in love with.
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reader, malum424  +, writes (7 May 2009):
 She may want you to ask her parents if it's alright for you to date her, or she could feel like she truning away from the values her parents taught her.
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