A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I have been seeing a man I met through a dating site, we clicked right away because we have the same goals. He treated me with respect and always sent greetings to my parents. He was actually talking about marriage after 8 days of dating. He is 45 divorced when he was 23 years, after 1 year of marriage he describes it as the painful love story in his life, also the same year his parents died, he said he worked hard to come out of this dark period.After all the nice things he told me like I am very attracted to you and you're always in my thoughts and that he thinks of me with affection, he decided to come to meet my parents. We were planning and he told me I need courage to come to your home I hope its not hard. Then suddenly he sent me an e-mail saying I will not contact you again, give me back my phone number. I was shocked and hurt and I told him that. What he said was 'it's better you forget me, it's not your fault'He actually lives in another city so I told him that I will come to see him he then said 'I dont want you to come alone I worry for you' so I replied and told him I will only come if you want me. He gave no answer.So now I am confused, how could someone so polite and nice suddenly change? And no he is not seeing anyone else he is just quiet.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 December 2009):
Something has happened, and he no longer is interested. You have to be brave and move on.
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