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writes:Ok, so I have slept with my friend a few times now... She is cool when she is sober and I like her but when she gets really drunk she gets really crazy and clingy. I dont do clingy! I met her at the pub the other day and she was completely off her head and just followed me around all nite and then cracked it for no reason and left? I texted her asking her if she was alright and what was goin on and then she proceeded to text, call me constantly until I had to tell her that I was turning my phone on silent. None of her texts made sense either.... We used to drunk text each other all the time, so she has always been like that when she is drunk... we call them her "rage blackouts" and I know she hates them and gets all upset the next day... so why does she do it? I talk to her during the day on emails and she is funny, intelligent, witty and we have a great friendship, I love talking to her... its just when she is drunk she scares me a little... I texted her a Merry Christmas message the next day and she didnt reply... I hate it when she ignores me... could she just be embarrassed about what happened? How should I handle this so at least our friendship is still in tact?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): Oh god that sounds like me _ (The crazy-drunk-girl).
Lets call the girl...Em.
Ok so if I was Em. and I was dating you, when I had one of my 'Rage-blackouts' the next morning (after I maybe read over some of the texts, saw how many times I called, heard from friends ect.) I would be extremely embarrassed, and probably quiet doubtful that you still liked me. Or maybe that the entire time you have been nice to me only for the sake of my feelings being hurt. I might try to ignore you so that I wouldn't like you anymore for the sake of you, and so that I would disturb you or anything.
Hope I helped at some degree,
3, Vannah.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (28 December 2009):
So are you even wanting to be her boyfriend? Or just her friend and have sex with her?
Half the problem may be that she really likes you and feels like she's being used.
If you want to be her boyfriend then tell her but tell her you want to stop drinking.
If you just want easy sex then back off, stop using her, be her friend and no more. Tell her it will never happen.
Good Luck!! xx
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