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female
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30-35,
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writes:My boyfriend and I will have been together 2 months now apart from the 6 month break we took from eachother. we were together for 6 months before that and broke up because i cheated. I was devistated and felt horrible and he told me he couldnt see himself back with me as long as he was still upset about it, i still had my faith in us and did not give up in showing him how sorry I was and he accepted. We have talked about it and he says he is over it but sometimes he still thinks about it but he is fine with it. Lately things have been going well, the week before christmas he spent the weekend with my family and loved it. But the problem is he is moving back to his hometown soon due to financial problems (we are both college students and he lives 6 hours away from me). it is a very touchy subject for me because i feel i just got him back and things were going so well, i am not very good with long distance relationships or being away from someone i care about but i am willing to try my hardest with him. Yet he has said that he's had a long distance relationship and theyre really hard (from his previous girlfriend of 4 yrs). I have had this experience also and i know it is hard, I am willing and would like to move down where he is because it gives a better advantage for my career down the road but he thinks i want to do it just to follow him and he says he doesnt want me to do that. In my opinion i think he doesnt want me moving because he doesnt think we will last or he is going to break up with me once he leaves. A few days before and during our 6 month break he was talking to random girls on myspace and trying to meet them, more then just friends and he denys it to this day, he continued to talk to a girl constantly while we got back together and i told him i did not like it and he stopped (or so i thought). I recently found out he has been messaging her and many other random girls he has added after he told me he would not add any other girls. a few weeks ago he told 2 girls he was single and just christmas night as we were texting he commented on a girls photo saying she "is gorgeous and she should hit him up". He has recently started saying he loves me again and calling me beautiful but turns around and messages these girls calling them beautiful and misses talking to them. I have no idea how to confront him about this because he told me the minute we got back together he would continue to talk to girls but only as friends and then i find out he is telling ppl he is single and lieing to me about it.I am extremely upset with him because i have kept my promise to him of being faithful in everyway and he said the same but i consider this emotionally cheating. I assumed everything was going well but i feel its not obviously. I do not know how to confront him about this...he is a very flirty guy, we met through facebook(not too proud to say) but this has gone too far and i do not know what to do or say to him.
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