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female
age
41-50,
*onfused and tired
writes:I have known this guy from work almost a year. From the begining he has flirted with me, and I have flirt back. One night people from work went for drinks to celebrate someones retirement. We talked the whole time. Exchanged phone numbers and even said that we should go out to dinner or movie. He gave me three hugs and a kiss on the cheek. We don't see each other that much at work, but when we do he goes out of his way to flirt with me. Going as far as saying he was coming over to flirt with me and that he wasn't going to be subtle about it. I flirt back, but it has been four months since exchanging numbers. And he hasn't called or asked me out. Our company policy is not a problem. So why hasn't he done anything yet. And what should I do.
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reader, doom  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 Hi, well it seems maybe he likes you a lot, but he has already somebody.But don't forget we aren't in high school and we should wait till the guy asks us out.Next time he flirts try beeing a bit hard on him ask him as a joke, about your futur date(movie,popcorn,dinner,simpl walk,cofee etc...)
I'm sur after that you'll find out very fast who in reallity that person is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): Are you sure the guy is single? It sounds to me like he is already in a relationship and he is just playing with you because he likes the attention....you know the whole male ego thing.
I don't think he is either available or interested and if it were me, I would try giving him the cold shoulder, don't flirt with him. He may think he can take his time and that you aren't going anywhere. Create distance and see what he does.
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