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writes:So, there's this boy named Nathan I like very very much. I used to go to school with him, but i transfered. It's about 4 years later. We've been talking and hanging out, a lot. It's been at least 10 times. It's not just for an hour or two, it's all day. I love being around him. I've never in my entire life felt happier. I smile constantly around him and I feel so safe. I think I'm falling for him, fast.The last time we hung out we ended up kissing, making out actually. Our hands went a little crazy too. But nothing was down the pants. It was an unbelievable feeling.I have experience with guys, I'm not a virgin. He feels different. Just making it obvious that we've done nothing serious yet. I want to though.So, the problem is he has a girlfriend. He hasn't talk her about us, and he promised me we'd be together...one day. -those are horrible words. Anyways, I want him to fall for me too. How do I make this happen? We click, it's sparks every time I see him, let alone kiss him. I need him to break up with her, he's happy with me. I want it to be just me and him. How do I go about doing this?PLEASE HELP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): You do realize that he's cheating on his girlfriend with you. Doesn't that make you feel like scum? Doesn't that make you feel like HE is scum??? He says you will be together one day, but he doesn't really mean it. He just wants to string you along as far as possible so he can have his cake and eat it, too, all while stomping all over your heart and feelings. The best thing you can do is pull out your self respect, cut all contact and find someone else who really cares for you and ISN'T a cheater.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): -i origionally posted this.
I don't think you understand how much I like him.
And I've taken the fact he's using me into consideration...and I dont think i can give him an untimatumn.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 December 2009):
You can't. And you don't want to either, trust me. This guy wants to use you and is using you. If he really wanted you, he'd dump her, wouldn't he? So before anything else happens, I'd suggest you tell him it's either her or you. He has to leave her, or he'll just use you.
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