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writes:it is now the christmas holidays and i wont see my boyfriend for over a week,, we can keep in contact by texting but i hope things wont have changed after not seeing eachother for this lentgh of time. what can i do to stop this from happening?x
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reader, Fifteen  +, writes (19 December 2009):
it's just a week...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Funny thing, Im hoping the 4 months I just spent away from my bf hasn't changed anything... I guess the only answer for us both is that we just gotta trust the relationship is strong enough to make it. If it's not, then we did what we could do.
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reader, jeslet992 +, writes (19 December 2009):
It's a week. If feelings are going to change after just a week then you have bigger things to worry about, for example your own emotional issues.if his feelings change, then you probably don't need a guy who is so inclined to possibly cheat.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (19 December 2009):
Yeah, my husband goes away for 6 months at a time with the army.
If either of you are that childish that you can't last a week away from each other then you would probably have split up over something really stupid anyway.
Distance is a test of feelings so take it and don't cheat.
Wouldn't you rather find out if your feelings are real or not?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, FrozenLullaby +, writes (19 December 2009):
One week is really not at all a long time. Try staying months away from your boyfriend instead. Being in a long distance relationship, I sometimes spend even 2 months away from him. It hasn't harmed our relationship so far.
If however you and your boyfriend happen to have your feelings changed during that time, it just goes to tell you you weren't meant to be. But if you really like each other, then there's no point in worrying.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 believe me, one week is not a lifetime, and if his feelings change after such a SHORT period of time, he isnt worth wasting tears over.
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