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writes:im 14 and have NEVER had a real kiss. the guy i like is finally single and if he asks me out im going to say yes, the problem is his ex was very experienced and im not. i dont know how to kiss and im so shy. i dont know what to do but i want him to love me and i dont want him to tell people im a prude. someone please help me, can someone explain to me how im supposed to kiss and what exactly to do while kissing? thanks
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reader, acey lacey +, writes (19 December 2009):
 i was you when i was 14!! super shy and i feared that guys thought i was a total prude, when really i wish i just had to guy to 'not be prude with' but if the guy really likes you he wont call you prude to his friends! as far as the kissing thing goes- this isnt really what you wna hear but you just know. you just know what to do when your face is an inch away from his. and while your kissing, show him your into itt-press ur body against his and sort of hold his head and tug is his hair only a little bit. it depends on how you guys are sitting. let his lips sort of guide you-go along with it and if he sticks his tongue in your mouth it might come as a shock but do it right back to him..
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Well kissing come naturaly you dont really have to be shown how to do it you will just know when it happends x
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reader, elwoodbluelou +, writes (19 December 2009):
 he'll understand that its your first time, and you won't be experienced. just try to kind of copy what he does and you should be fine (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Believe me or not, I never ever thought about not knowing how to kiss when I first kissed. To make things harder, he was older and more experienced, I was very aware I wasn't and I was shy but not at all worried how I would come accross or if he would notice my skills and all this nonsense.
Be more creative here, kids.
Better think about: how to make the relationship work, how to have a mature, understanding quality time together, how to study together...
I know you're only 14 and you shouldn't even have a relationship but...
And if he bad mouths you to others, why would you want him around as a b/f anyway? Don't even get into a r/ship before you know he is reliable and not a jerk.
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