Why is he always questioning me about other men?

A female age 41-50, *ngelfayer writes:

here goes, i have known this guy(KS)for three years, but we became close friends this past year. at first he would call me or text me all the time, seems he was intrested in me. making moves and asking questions about the guy am dating and so on. my best friend was the first to say that the guy was keen on me thats when i started taking notice. we would spend hours on the phone talking about anything and everything. ihad problems with my man of 3years and it finally ended. i started showing intrest to this guy but he was in a sorta new relationship with this gal. we continued to call and text each other.by the time his realationship ended i met this other guy.(NZ)he doesnt like this knew guy and would always question me about him(wat we have done, etc. to cut it short. after showing signs that he was intrested i took the courage and asked him if he was intrested in me and if he would mind sleepin with me (a 1 nite off). which he said he "likes me as a good friend, and values the friendship and relationship" but he sees me as a sista(cos he knows the family and is close friends with my brother and even help bridge the gap between me and my bro.( and he doesnt want to betray the trust my bro has in him) i was hurt but i accepted it.i pretended to seeing other guys, and talking bout my past and the guys i have been with then it all became more intense esp afta i told him that im sleepin with NZ, he questions me all the time (where n who i have been with etc)if i dont pik my phone. he cals my friend to find out stuff and to tell her bout our fites which became more frequent.

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