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writes:I just recently broke up with my girfriend of 5 years. She had an affair with a co-worker last year, and I almost left her then. But I confronted her about it, and she begged me not to leave her. Well we worked things out, and I thought things were better, but last week I left work early, and when I came home I found her having sex with a different co-worker. I left her, and I am heartbroken, and destroyed because she was the love of my life. But I want to move on, but she keeps calling me. And She follows me everywhere I go, and what is even stranger She follows me all the time with the guy she cheated on me with WTF!! I came out from work on my lunch break they were there. I left my friends apt. who I am staying with at 1:00 a.m. last night, guess what they were there. Finally I have had enough, and I went over to confront them. She gets out and asks me why the hell I left, and I tell her because you fucking cheated on me. Get this, she says I am overreacting, it was just sex, and that they don't even love each other, and he has a girlfriend. So she keeps begging me to come back. I love her so much, but I pretty Goddam sure I can never trust her again. What do you think? I neded all the help I can get on this. Would you take her back? What kind of games do you think she is playing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): Get OUT now! Don't look back! She has cheated twice, and yes, you may love her, but, it sounds like she will never respect/love you enough NOT to cheat on you. Move on and find a girl that is worth your love.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 April 2009):
 She knows she very much controls you, and thinks you will accept any excuse she comes up with. She's been cheating on you for long, and will continue to do it. So, simply stand your ground and leave, forever.
Don't be heartbroken. She doesn't love you, so it makes no sense to hurt over her.
By the way, send someone to get your stuff. That will also give her the message that this time it's over.
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reader, passionatelynumb +, writes (27 April 2009):
 Holy God! That's insane! Run from this girl as fast as you can. I guess she's just trying to see how much of a doormat you are. Don't let her manipulate you. Get a restraining order if she keeps stalking you.
I'm sorry this happened to you, but be thankful you found this out about her before you married her or got her pregnant! Or worse got pregnant with some other dude's kid and tricked you into thinking that you were the father.
It could be a lot worse. Find someone who deserves you.
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