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*hicken999
writes:I live with my boyfriend who I have been with for a year now and every single day I cry. He makes me feel so lonely and unwanted. He never wants to spend any time with me at all, he's always busy on the computer or with his mates and he reckons spending time with me is going to sleep at night next to me. He never misses me, he never acts like he cares at all and when we fight he calls me names like "slut" all the time. I hate it so much. I just wish he would love and care about me when I cry and feel bad for making me cry. I'm so upset but we've signed a lease for another 3 months. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Yes, leave him as soon as you possibly can and get your own apartment, even if you have to share with another woman!
He is not good for your emotional health and well-being. As others have said, you're not (thank heaven!!) married to him so you don't have to go through the hassle of divorce.....let him hire someone to be a housekeeper for him. You're not it.
Good luck!
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (20 April 2009):
 Oh my god! cut your loses and RUN. I put up with a man like that for 10 years, thinking all my mates were wrong and that he would get better over time.
Do not waste another moment on this selfish man. He will never change.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (20 April 2009):
 Key word "boyfriend" not husband, no strings. You are free to move out in three months or maybe even find a roomate for him so you can do it earlier. You are not stuck, start making plans.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): So you have 3 months in which to find another place to stay... without him. He is obviously happy having you as a cook and cleaner and bed-warmer but that is all you are to him. And by the sounds of it... its not going to improve. Pack your bags and get out!!
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