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female
age
36-40,
*ib1
writes:I met a guy from an online dating site. We talked for one month through email and kind of went on dates for a month. They went really well and things seemed promising until I met his best friend and sister and I didn't get along with the best friend. I suggested I get to know him better before I meet all his friends. Suddenly, all his texts and phone calls were days apart. Despite the friend incident we did finally hook up but he refuses to have sex with me. Recently, I had an incident where a guy tried to take advantage of me when I was drunk and kissed my neck. I got him away from me before things went bad and I accidentally picked up the phone when the guy I've been seeing called. I drunkenly told him about the incident but I can't quite remember the conversation. Its been two days and nothing from the guy. I did bump into his best friend who made an effort to be nice to me but now I feel like I might have screwed things up and its a lost cause with this guy. I'm bummed I really liked him but things suddenly seem a bit cold. Whats your opinion? Will he not have sex with me because he sees no future? Why did he drastically lower the communication?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): Ask him why he backed off. That's the only way you can know the truth.
He could have been influenced by his friend's opinion, but the only way to find out is through what he answers.
Try not to pin your hopes on him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Why is it so important that after a month of talking and one month of dating someone this person has sex with you? Why are you getting drunk around people you hardly know? (Not saying what happened was your fault, it wasn't, just saying.)If he breaks up with you, because someone else hurt you he's a jerk ne ways. There might've been some miscommunication since you were drunk, though.Some guys actually get turned off when a female wants to have sex so soon.Ask him what's going on, what's up. Ask him why he stopped talking to you. Ask him to be honest with you and tell him that you can handle it. And please stop these other habits before worse things happen to you.
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