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writes:I just want some opinions on my current situation. I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months. We hit it off instantly. About a month ago, he breaks up with me because he wanted to focus on himself and his work. He was very stressed and overwhelmed about things. He couldn't balance his life and a relationship. He had told me that he wanted to be friends and only friends and to be treated as a friend and nothing more. He went ahead and did what he needed to do. There were few days I didn't hear from him and I didn't see him as usual, but that only lasted about a week. Now things seem to have returned to normal. It seems like he has come around. He holds my hand again, he holds me, he kisses me just like before. It's as if he wanted to break up so he could focus, but it was very hard for him to be without me. Wild guess. He sees that now and wants to make things better? I don't know whats going on in his mind. He's acting just like he did before we broke up. I don't want to ask him how he's feeling, I just want to go with the flow of things. If we are not in a relationship again, there is definitely something there and it's not a booty call if that's what you're thinking. What do you think is going on? Would you say we are together again?
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reader, bootyboot +, writes (20 April 2009):
if he is treating you the exact same way as before, then it sounds like he just needed a quick break to sort out his feelings. i would not pressure him with more relationship talk, just go with the flow as you say because he might freak if you push him to hard.
i had a similar situation, and was dating a guy for three months, then he started to grow cold so i broke it off. now we see each other as FWB which is not a great idea (trust me.) but it sounds like you are different since he is still acting lovey dovey with you. so don't stress it, just enjoy the ride.
i don't blame you for being nervous since he broke it off suddenly before, so you are a little "gun shy." but i think you should just roll with it and see what happens.
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