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I know I'm "ready" but I'm scared his penis won't fit in me...

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Question - (1 April 2009) 9 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2009)
A female Argentina age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Me and my bf have been dating for about 4 months and I'm still a virgin but he's obviously not. I really want him to be the one because I trust him fully and even if we do break up - I just know that he's the one.

I'm only 14 but I know I'm ready. I mean I've been on birth control and stuff and we've talked about this A LOT. We've done foreplay you know he's fingered me but he's only been able to get one finger in when I'm relaxed which concerns me about sex. I heard it hurts and I'm scared that his penis won't fit in me.

Any tips???

Kat.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009):

i'm 14 too. And, trust me theirs no need to have sex at this age. Sex can WAIT, your future CAN't. Theirs plenty of time for that, when you are older. Sex will change you forever, emotionally, SPIRITUALLY, physically, and etc. theirs still plenty of time to change your mind, I hope you still are a virgin while i'm writing this letter to u. P.s I hope god can reach your heart, && u realize sex can wait...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009):

I asked one question. I don't get the whole importance thing. It's my descion and I know Im ready and yeah prepared. Im not gonna become a mom or anything. Thanks for you're help you guys.

JoAn

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009):

Hi.Good day! I'm also 14 years old. and don't even think about that stuff! You know, I'm just concerned about you. Please think about it! you might end up being pregnant, and will be a mom in the early age.

again... please think about it!!! :)

you will lose your future! and your future baby will be so sad. because you and your partner don't have work. you're not yet independent.. So, how come you can feed you baby?

sorry for asking that way. but that is my opinion.

well everybody here, disagree from what you said.. "I know I'm "ready".. well that is some kinda funny! 'coz you know we are still young. You can till change you path in life.

i hope you understand.

Thanks! and godbless you..

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (1 April 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntI wish there was some way to convince you not to do this at your tender young age. I just wish...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009):

It's easy to find girls who've had sex at 14. It's easy to find girls at 14-16 who don't regret it.

But it's much harder to find full-grown women who had sex at 14 and don't regret it now looking back.

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A male reader, apathyslastkiss Canada +, writes (1 April 2009):

apathyslastkiss agony auntGood lord Kat,

Really? You're 14 years old, and you think you're ready for sex? Lots of people go to jail for having sex with 14 year olds. You can't be serious. This is SO wrong. Geeze, when did you hit puberty, 2, 3 years ago? I know people hate being preached at, and hate hearing people disagree with them, but I'm going to tell you straight up - this would be very, very wrong. Nobody at your age should be having sex - period! Besides that, 4 months is not a long time to know ANYBODY, especially not long for someone to have sex with. Do you even understand how big a deal sex is? It is not just some physical activity like riding a bike - it will change your life emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Sex is not something to enter into lightly. Wait. Don't do this - you will regret it.

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A male reader, DLover Canada +, writes (1 April 2009):

14 is young, but still, you better be informed than laughed at ! So here it is:

With enough lubrification, it will fit. Lubrification needs foreplay. It might hurt on the first time, or after the first time. It will take a few times before you enjoy penetration.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009):

Lol sex at 14. This is why I prefer older women. They're so much more mature.

If you THINK you know at age 14... You should consider listening to your parents and try doing your chores.

You obviously don't even know much about sex.

Stay in school kid.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009):

Yes, slow down! No reason to rush into sex. 4 months isnt that long.

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