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Why is this man playing games with me?

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Question - (1 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I want to know why is this man playing games with me. We suppose to be in a relationship together we started off knowing each other very well . We even went out to eat on a date he us to give me money . We would go riding at night go to the club together or meet one another there. But all of a sudden the man started to change on me. He started to disrespect me by talking to other woman while I was there like I wasn't there then he started dancing with other woman. He even brought one of his ex- grilfriend to the club with him and he didn't say anthing to me he act like me and him wasn't even together. After that when I tell him abut his self he get mad with me and he want call me for three or four days. When he do he act like nothing never happen. Like these last few days he came to my house talking about he just stop by to see how I was doing so lately on that night when he seen me in the club he act I wasn't there so I act like he wasn't there so then he wanted to fight he said that I was Ingore him and I was he could stand the test of his on medical. So now he call his self bringing up so kind of excuse when I try to tell him that that was a lie he just hung the phone up and I haven't heared from him since and I haven't call him either. So what he really doing is that just his way of backing up from me and never mess with me again or what is he doing to our relationship is it over or what please give me a answer so I can try to let him go it's going to be hard because I'm in love with him

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (1 April 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntHe's just not that into you I'm afraid. I'm sorry you are in love with him but I think you need to move on, I don't think there's a future here.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009):

yes...he's playing games...why? well maybe he wants to see just how far he can take you...good job on not contacting him after he hung up on you...

he may want you to chase him...don't do it girl...he likes you just as much as you like him from what i can tell...but he may just want to see just how much you will ALLOW...and talking to other women in front of you may be his way of doing this...

i do have a couple of questions though, because your story is kind of vague:

first and foremost: does he know that you consider him your official "MAN"?

2)did you and him go to the club together that you seem him mingling with other girls?

3)did he inform you the status of him and his ex...they obviously are still friends or are they still sexual? im assuming not because you claim he's your man.

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