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Is it ok to be selfish in a relationship every once in a while?

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Question - (1 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi guys just need some feedback to this question. Is it ok to be selfish in a relationship every once in a while?. Meaning that is it ok and normal to think about my needs and not just my partner's needs all the time.

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntyeah i don't see why that is a problem everyone has needs as long as you don't think on your needs too much then i'm sure it's ok.

if you feel your needs aren't being met then talk to your partner about it and see if you guys can do anything to achieve it.

i reckon it's ok for you to have needs and think of them.

as long as you don't let them get the better of your relationship.

Hope this advice helps you.

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