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Why would he said I was stalking him when he was the one who called me?

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Question - (6 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 September 2008)
A age 22-25, anonymous writes:

at the end of the school year last year my friends told this one guy i liked him. i was pretty sure he liked me too. so in the middle of the summer he called me. which means he must like me, right?. every time he called he was with his friends and they would always be really annoying. anyways, his friend asked if i liked him and i said yeah. so we talked a couple times after that and he seemed a little nervous, but normal. on the first day of school he was talking to one of my friends and he was saying things like "she's a stalker" and he told my other friend to tell me to stop calling him. then he was being nice to me when i saw him in the hall. now he doesn't even talk to me and barely looks at me when i see him in the hall. i don't get why hes being weird like that. can someone give me an answer, please?

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (6 September 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntYou have gotten good responses but I'll put my two cents here:

I think I know why he does this.

Well, I think he's just pretty bummed that he's not going out with you so he takes it out on you for having "lost" the opportunity for being with him. This is his way of coping, by trying to ruin your chances with anyone else. By saying that "you're a stalker" some people *might* believe it and guys will be scared to approach you.

The best way to aproach this is by ignoring it. If you seem to not care what he says, people will pick up the same thing and probably see him a liar. Try to deny all of this and people will think you're lying. Heck, I've been there too (someone spread a bad rumor about me... long story) and that's how I approached it. It got away a couple of months late and the person was branded a liar.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (6 September 2008):

Well he's 13 to 15 so he's a little boy. They act in stupid and immature ways. He probably doesn't even know what a stalker is.

If he's acting like this now when he is supposed to like you then imagine what he's going to be like as a boyfriend?

If you want to date him and have all his friends constantly making jokes and him trying to do what ever will look cool for them, then go for it. He'll probably be nice to you sometimes, when you are alone and no one can see, but those moments will be few and far between

He's an idiot sweetheart. Tell him to give you a call when he grows up then just blank him.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, happybunny_xoxo United States +, writes (6 September 2008):

Wow this reminds me of someone..Its weird don't call him at all and yet he calls you a stalker..guys these days..last year I had the same problem this guy called me nonstop during the day and night and then all of sudden he tells me that I am acting like if he was my boyfriend I was thinking what in the world he calls me all the time..Then he started talking to my friend and would deny that he called me..he denied that he knew me which was mean you know.He told my friend that I wuz annoying but yet he would make me talk to him all night.So one day I decided to change my cell phone number so he wouldn't call me anymore so I did and then he asked me for my number.Well the whole point of my story is that the guy caused me a lot of drama that year and I haven't talked to him for about a year everything is better now..What I think you should do is just forget about him because he is being 2 faced and he is not worth your time...

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