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Would it be acceptable for me to ask to visit her sometimes, to have dinner together? Her college is about 1.5 hours from my house.

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Question - (28 September 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My question is fairly simple, but requires some exposition.

I just started freshman year in college. Throughout high school, I had feelings for a girl who was one of my closest friends. We started dating around middle of senior year, and had been together for around 6 months when we both went off to separate schools.

We decided to see how things went in terms of college life in order to determine whether to stay in a relationship, but also to stay friends/keep in touch regardless of what happened.

Over the past month (of college) we have exchanged some fairly warm emails. My question is this: would it be acceptable/not creepy for me to ask to visit her sometime, to have dinner together? It would not have to be romantic in nature.

I live close to home, and her college is about 1.5 hrs from my house, so it would not be a huge trip.

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