New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244973 questions, 1084344 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I like my friend's boyfriend, he likes me too, now I'm wondering if I should tell her what happened or keep my mouth shut?

Tagged as: Dating, Friends, Three is a crowd<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (28 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

ok heres my problem well my freind she has this boyfreind

right so we were having this party and latley i have been having feelings towards her boyfreind but i figured that since she is dating him i keep my mouth shut so like were at the party and were hangin out and my freind left to get her boyfreind and me some sodas so like outta nowhere

he says he likes me and then he just gave me a quick kiss on the lips and blushed but then my freind came in and she said whats going on and we both said nothing as if we had done something wrong which we did and and later after every leaves my freind left again cuz her mom called her so i tell him i like him too but i dont want of those secret realtion ships so i leave him without answering if we should be together and evry thing i told my best freind that my mom was picking me up but she did not cuz i did not asked her so i walked home now im wondering if should i rell her about everything that happend or should i just bite my lip and not tell her at please tell me what you think i should do any answer would be great.

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, Love sick girl United States +, writes (28 September 2008):

Now this actually happens alot. I myself have gone through this and i never told her now i wish i would have cuz latter on after i told him we couldn't be together he went and cheated on her with another girl. What i am tryin to say is tell her wat happened and you may be saving her from a lot of pain in the future. Yea she maybe a little mad at you for a short amount of time but she will get over it as long as nothing more happened you'll be fine.

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, aprilwind United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2008):

what do you think your friend would say if you told her? she get really mad and not want to friends anymore- if you think she would understand... tell her.

April, Age 11 (don't judge my age please)

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I like my friend's boyfriend, he likes me too, now I'm wondering if I should tell her what happened or keep my mouth shut?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0469072999985656!