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writes:I have been dating this guy for 5 mths. He tells my straight up he doesnt want a girlfriend but on the other hand he says if i see anyone else, touch, kiss, etc. then its over between us.And he's not seeing anyone else.what does that mean? are there differnt stages of dating? Or is he trying to control me? Just wondering if i've given it enough time and i need to move on.
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reader, GirlyonFire  +, writes (28 September 2008):
Sounds to me like you 2 are just bedtime buddies. Do what you think is right!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008): Dear Poster
I suggest you be very cautious; this guy wants you exclusively to himself, yet he is not prepared to commit to a relationship; something does not make sense; I see red warning lights flashing!
There are lots of things that could have an influence or that could be the reason for him behaving this way.
How often do you see him? How much time do you spent together?
What is his current marital status?
Was he married before? Or was he perhaps in a very claustrophobic relationship?
Does he have commitment phobia?
Where does he stay? How settled is he in his career and lifestyle?
With more information it might be easier to try and give you more perspective.
Best wishes and keep SMILING.
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