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female
age
30-35,
*elcocoxx
writes:i met this boy in 2006. He chased after me for one year and a half and we went out for a while.everyday he would call me and we spoke for 4 hours. he wanted to spend all the weekends with me.but i cheated on him with his friend.he caught me holding hands and kissing his friend.he pretened nothing happened but at the same time he started moving himself away from me. i got closer to his friend as he stopped calling me and his friend started texting and calling me everyday.it was nothing serious but inside i knew that i would go back to him and after a month i heard he got a girlfriend, i didnt believe it i thought that it wouldnt last long. when i found out i only slept for one hour. after every single arguments with his new girlfriend he would call me or come in front of my house and talk and hug me. he said he didnt love her and it was nothing serious. their relationship started going well and he stopped all the contacts between us. i started realising that he had those feeling for her that he used to have for me one year ago and it hit me that i wasnt that girl in his life anymore. he went out with that girl for one year and she moved in with him and they were truly happy and i fell in depresstion again. i moved on and got other boys in my life but i ALWAYS thought only about him.on the 03/09 his girlfriend ran away from him without saying a word and he couldnt find her. he looked EVERYWHERE he could for her. even asked me if i knew where she was!?he asked everyone where she was. i was happy.i thougth that he would come back to me.and one week ago he texted me but i didnt see the text as he texted me on my old number.we spoke on MSN today for the first time in a long time. he wanted to meet up and talk about what happening in our life as friends.he said that he is going mad and he knows he is.he doesnt know that i am aware of what have been going on about him and his girlfriend.i dont know if i his rebound?is there any way he can like meif not, with time will he heal and come back to me?what if she comes back, will he leave me?i just dont know what to do?i know i sound like a selfish litlle b*tchand yes, he was my first and only love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): Meet him as a friend; take it slow and take it easy; don't rush into anything. Time will tell; if he still has feelings for you; who knows you might end up together, but don't expect something to soon; then it might be rebound and you don't want that.
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