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female
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36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes:I was wondering if my friends new relationship will work out?They've been dating for 1 month and the first week in September, she moved away for school and will be back at christmas. However, they will be spending 4 months apart at a time. She never met his family or friends he is with in school yet so they dont know he has a 'girlfriend' because he also never talks about her. He cheated on her a week after she left but he sent her flowers for her birthday, and presents in the mail. He will never tell her he cheated on her, or maybe he doesnt even consider "dry sex" cheating. Either way, she doesnt know he did this but instead, is so caught up in all the attention he gives her so she wont break it off.I think she will be heartbroken and I have been considering telling her what type of guy he is but i really need an honest opinion before I commit to telling her what she doesnt want to hear.Will this relationship work??
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): I suggest you let it be; let them solve there own problems; your intentions might be good but she might not appreciate your interference and she might confront him; he might deny it and you will end having lots of problems to explain to your friend.No, Maybe you should indicate to the guy that you know about his "cheating" and that you are going to inform your friend; but personally I would let them be!Take care of yourself and your relationships and let your friends sort out there own lives.
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