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writes:how am i suppose to face my crush if he hates me and knows that i love him?hes 7 years older than me......
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): It's not easy to get a 20-23yo guy to "hate" a 13-15yo girl. Maybe he doesn't particularly like you or something but he probably doesn't HATE you.
Or maybe he's just sending you that message too strongly because he knows you're crushing on him and he doesn't want to encourage it any more than it already is?
Either way, try not to call it "love." I know it's a powerful emotion and he feels like THE one and only, but at your age I guarantee you it's not "love" like you will experience later in life.
I know you don't want to hear "you're too young to be in love." You're old enough to be having very, very powerful feelings about this. I believe you are. But real LOVE takes years of spending hours a day with someone in addition to the other things in a relationship. You just haven't even had the time for that kind of thing to develop at 13-15 years old. It feels like a hell of a lot right now, but someday you will look back and you won't think it was "love."
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): u cant say u "love" him if his just ur crush he probably got freaked out that u used the 8 letter thing
u just gotta pretend like nothing happened and his gonna see that ur not a stalker anymore
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (10 September 2008):
 The way you face your crush is by just treating him like an ordinary person who you care nothing about. If he insults you, just ignore him and go about your way. After that, NEVER look back.
He may really not hate you but he treats you bad because he wants you to stop liking him because he doesn't like you. It's his way of telling you to back off because he shows no interest to you, mainly because you're still a child and he's an adult.
You gotta realze you might never be with him and waiting for that happen will be a complete waste of time. Why not just go for a boy closer to your age who will like you?
And I agree with sappygirl, you are talking too much by saying you love him. This may offend you, but when you're older and have truely experiece the feelings of love, you'll look back and realize what we have told you.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (10 September 2008):
 First of all, You do not LOVE him. What you are feeling is lust and infatuation. Also sometimes we choose crushes we know we have NO chance with.
Honestly, he's an adult you are a minor. This will lead to no where. You can still admire him, respect him, but just know that you will never be his girlfriend..that is why they call it a CRUSH.
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