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writes:my first love lasted about 3-4 years. most of highschool. we had a lot of problems. bc we started breaking up and seeing different people. when she had boyfriends she would cheat on them with me. when i had girlfriends i cheated on them with her. its like we wanted each other more when we couldnt have each other. idk if its true love. but now we both kind understand that we feel comfortable with our past so we go back. but now shes with someone that doesnt want her talkin to me. and im with someone that doesnt want me talking to her. but im getting this feeling she wants to talk again. but im happy with this new girl. she really really likes me. i feel like i could be in love again. but is that possible? to be in love more than once? than i think about my ex. i love everything about her. but when i think what she did to me. it hurts. but i did some bad things to.. i reall need some help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): I think that you need time alone so that you can figure out who you really want to be with...you said that your new girlfriend really likes you...that Is good. But if your ex were to come back along and you run back to her...you will hurt your new girlfriend. So its just not about you and your ex in this situation..if you all really want to be together then you should sort things out, and try to start anew without the cheating, but if you really want to move on (which I think you should) then you should devote yourself to your new girlfriend....if you really like her then you will be in love all over again...
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reader, Playboy  +, writes (10 September 2008):
I jumped into a relationship a month or 2 after a breakup but i was still in love with my ex even though i wanted him so maybe its just infatuation which will pass or u miss those moments with ur ex and have regrets about breaking up. Think about it
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