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writes:im 18 and my best friends a girl who iv known for a about three years we have loads of fun together she stays at mine sometimes.But i want more than just friends. but she doesnt. we flirt constantly and have loads of time together just us two. we tell each other everything and im always there for her and vice versa. could it ever be more?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice its really helped me get my head round things
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): Usually no. Not any time soon, not without some big changes in life.
The best (and only) chance you have is for her to see other girls finding you attractive. So get out there and date someone else.
Don't get all clumsy and try to rub her nose in it (that's very obvious), just honestly put her out of your mind as a GF possibility and move on. Really. It may not work but it's the only thing that even stands a chance. If not, you'll be better off anyway.
Keep her as a friend. Don't shut her out or anything. Try not to let things change between you & her any more than it has to. But let her know that if she's not interested in you that way, then you'll be dating someone else. (You don't even have to try to "top her" with your other girl/girls, just getting someone else AT ALL is the most important thing.)
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