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writes:I'm in love with a man I don't trust. I check his e-mails behind his back, I go through his phone, I am just so paranoid!! I never used to be this way but he cheated once and I just can't seem to get over it. Do you think there is any point carrying on with this? I hate snooping and I can't shake off the paranoia!! I am so torn. I love him but the feelings are buried under so much anger and confusion. Sometimes I even dislike him. We live together so you see how complicated this is? Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 Soon as someone lies to you or deceives you, its hard to get things back on track. Basically it wont work if you dont trust him no. You dislike him because you resent his cheating making you feel this way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): He's given you the right to be paranoid, but personally and I think alot of people will agree that a relationship is built on trust and if you don't trust him save your self the engery and heartache and end it with him and start looking for another place.
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