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I like my best friend, but I don't know if she likes me back; .

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Question - (27 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *asanovaxeja writes:

i wasnt sure if i was bi, until i realised i was attracted to both males and females, ill be okay with that one day. i wasnt sure if i liked my bestfriend, or maybe i always wanted to deny that i did, until a few weeks ago when i just admitted it to myself.

Shes the most, intelligent, sexy, all around good person. I know i like her, i can feel it when shes around, as well as when shes not. I constantly think of her and am scared of that. The part i need to figure out is whether if she likes me or not. Shes always being seductive and flirty. Shes a natural flirt...i got that, but she makes these gay jokes (tho not aloud, just physically) all the time. She constantly rubs my elbow, moves my hair from my face, dances in sexual manners and is always somehow touching me, and when shes not, i want her too.

As well as the sexual feelings, we're are emotionally attached. Shes told me everything from her life, iknow her like a book. She is/was (idk?!) deeply in love with her bf, but one day, she was rubbing my hand, and telling me i make her feel better and forget it all. A random women walks up to us and is like, hav any of you two put on love potion perfume, and i giggle saying no, so does my bestfriend. As the lady walks away, my friend smells me and says, you hav put love potion on in a husky voice.

sometimes i feel like i know she wants me, but then i know shes scared, and tries to hide it, which she succeedes. When she sees bi or lesbian women on tv, she says ewww or gross, i feel like shes too scared of others reactions and how shes grown up learning being gay/bi is wrong.

I want to tell her, its slowly eating me inside out, but im scared, what if its all a game and shes like wtf? I definatly dont want to ruin our friendship (which feels like a relationship [thats what we botth call it]), but its killing me. should i tell her or not!?

Help! what should i do!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008):

Well, if she always flirting with you, then flirt back with her.

If she dancing in sexual manners with you, then do the same back, and see where it goes. :D

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A female reader, casanovaxeja United States +, writes (27 October 2008):

casanovaxeja is verified as being by the original poster of the question

youve gone thru this?

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A female reader, hazelbanana United States +, writes (27 October 2008):

hazelbanana agony auntoh what a cuwekikink. i have the SAME problem. no joke. What I think you should do is bring up the topic , not you and her, but being bi and lesbian in general. If she is really attracted to you she will crack, maybe you will have too. take some advice from a other Bi person. it IS worth it.

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