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anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, I am 25. Recently however, my sex drive has just disappeared. Whenever he initiates sex, I get shivers down my spine and it just doesn't feel right. I avoid having sex now, and feel terrible for it. I do still feel desire to have sex, however it just doesn't feel right with my boyfriend anymore. I have tried to talk to him about this, however he thinks it is just a passing phase, and does not think it is something to break up over. What do I do? I have no idea why I suddenly feel this way. Please help.
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reader, sorscha22  +, writes (28 October 2008):
 are you still physically attracted to him?? maybe your not..and thats why your repulsed when he wants sex. OR maybe having sex with him just grosses you out! do you still enjoy masterbating?? explore what the real motivation is as to why you don't want sex. is it in gerneral.. or just with him!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): Abstain for a while. (only hugs and kisses). You are probably lulled by love. Comfortable and complacent.(Dull routines).
What you need is to bring surprise into your situation. A little craziness to shake up this deadly habitual existence. That should bring back the passion.
Pay attention to the words of Bob Conklin: "People want riches. they need fulfillment".
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Maybe your just stressed thats probably the simplest problem ever! Try to get into like yoga or something like that.
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