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writes:Ok i am a girl and i have not had a real relationship ever. My sister try to help me find a guy but he liked her so he used me. My things is i feel like i my never find a guy because when i try it ends up blowing up in my face i cry at night now so please someone tell me how to get a guy or find one please i feel so alone and lost right now. Does anyone think i have a chance or no. Reply to this Question
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reader, uglyduckling +, writes (26 October 2008):
uglyduckling is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks everyone, I kinda see I should just have fun with life right now and if he comes he comes so I will write. Thank you all for your help. sincerely gucci
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2008): hey, well all i can say is that you dont find love. love finds you. When i was a little younger i wanted a bf, bt as soon as i stopped looking, my perfect guy came along. wev now been together 2 years.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (24 October 2008):
 I agree with Emily. First try to find some new friends, and don't really look for a guy. There is a saying, when you are looking hard u will not find one, but when you are not looking at all a relationship might find you. That's how me and my husband ended up together.
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reader, milker  +, writes (24 October 2008):
First of all you must find yourself a nice hobby. Play lots of enjoyable music. Go for nice long walks looking at all the lovely views of the sky, the clouds and all the beautiful things around you. Read things that interest you. It is obvious to want to be interested in boys, but like the other person said , do not throw yourself at boys. Be calm, friendly, learn a lot of interesting things to talk about. Get a pet, a dog can protect you but also will be a good talking point when you walk around. Wear nice clothes, not too showy so that people don't think you are too easy. Be a little aloof to give a mystical presence to males but also friendly and interested in them. Make sure that they also show interest in you as well,not just want you for one thing although that is also a desirable feature. Find out something that is around your area to give you an interest. eg swimming.You'll find it amazing that nice boys will appreciate you for the things that I have said. Don't go to bed upset and cry though because it's not the end of the world. There are always other things to interest you. You are only young.Breathe deeply to help any stress levels. Do exercises also to help. You'll be surprised how it concentrates your mind on other things and helps lots.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 October 2008):
I think you need to relax first of all. Guys can smell desperation on a girl from a mile and it will either scare them away or give them an easy way to use you.
Go out and make new friends, join a local club or volunteer somewhere. The more you expand your social circle, the more you likely you are to meet a nice guy.
Relax and be yourself and you will find a nice guy.
Everyone has a chance.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, for_a_reason +, writes (24 October 2008):
 Calm down. These things tend to happen when you're constantly worrying and stressing out about them - after all, no one wants to go out with the girl sitting alone, looking sorry for herself.
You need to get out and start joining clubs etc. that you're interested in and will enjoy attending - that way you're more likely to meet guys who you'll have similar interests to and click with.
Don't let it get you down - there are far more important things to worry about. Enjoy everything else in your life and when you least expect it, it'll happen.
Good Luck :)
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reader, Boredatwork +, writes (24 October 2008):
 Everyone has a chance, chances are he will come along when you least expect it :)Im sure (in fact i know) there are many guys out there thinking the same as you are.
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